"Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as revenge, with an increased ability to wish the offender well." -Wikipedia
In this case, I think forgiving him can be a good idea. But if I were you I would avoid any romantic/sexual relationship with him, and you should report him to the police so that he gets his punishment and therapy for alcohol.
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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"Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as revenge, with an increased ability to wish the offender well." -Wikipedia
In this case, I think forgiving him can be a good idea. But if I were you I would avoid any romantic/sexual relationship with him, and you should report him to the police so that he gets his punishment and therapy for alcohol.
And no, rape is not your fault.