Sorry doesnt sound like rape, you said no a few times but let it happen and said you liked it.. I call it determination but not rape. Doesnt really sound like he forced you and I doubt your "no" sounded serious. Ive been with chicks who say no stop but then later we hook up almost like teasing.
If you said no with conviction and fought him off thats one thing but he probably took it as playing hard to get.
before anyone bitches I get the whole no means no but Ive been in many scenarios where based on the context of no it didnt aleays mean i wasnt gona hook up etc. im sure other males here can relate and you can tell when a chick really isnt into it...
what part of "forced me onto the bed" and "I got really scared" makes you think she was playing hard to get or liked any of this? perhaps you should read what she wrote again.
next time someone tells you no, you need to listen to them. You have no idea the lasting effects that rape has on a person. how would you like it if someone made it so you couldn't love or trust anymore? couldn't enjoy sex anymore? by the sounds of it you may have done this to someone, for the love of god consider the impacts of your actions.
EVERYTHING your saying is true BUY that is legally considered rape anyways. a girl could say no in a sexually teasing way and then have you arrested and say that you raped her if she wanted to. you can apparentally rape a girl and not know it, weird shit right?
and btw to all you commmenting, WE CANT FKN READ MINDS. if you say no while your smiling and moaning or do it in a sexual way, who the fuck in the world would think that actually means no? dont send mix signals and you will be fine. I'm gonna tell you girls like i tell my nieces, CARRY A KNIFE WITH YOU EVERYWHERE YOU GO. and dont pull it out to threaten people pull it out to stab, as soon as you see an opening.
I want to forgive and reconnect with a friend who raped me.
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Sorry doesnt sound like rape, you said no a few times but let it happen and said you liked it.. I call it determination but not rape. Doesnt really sound like he forced you and I doubt your "no" sounded serious. Ive been with chicks who say no stop but then later we hook up almost like teasing.
If you said no with conviction and fought him off thats one thing but he probably took it as playing hard to get.
before anyone bitches I get the whole no means no but Ive been in many scenarios where based on the context of no it didnt aleays mean i wasnt gona hook up etc. im sure other males here can relate and you can tell when a chick really isnt into it...
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what part of "forced me onto the bed" and "I got really scared" makes you think she was playing hard to get or liked any of this? perhaps you should read what she wrote again.
next time someone tells you no, you need to listen to them. You have no idea the lasting effects that rape has on a person. how would you like it if someone made it so you couldn't love or trust anymore? couldn't enjoy sex anymore? by the sounds of it you may have done this to someone, for the love of god consider the impacts of your actions.
EVERYTHING your saying is true BUY that is legally considered rape anyways. a girl could say no in a sexually teasing way and then have you arrested and say that you raped her if she wanted to. you can apparentally rape a girl and not know it, weird shit right?
and btw to all you commmenting, WE CANT FKN READ MINDS. if you say no while your smiling and moaning or do it in a sexual way, who the fuck in the world would think that actually means no? dont send mix signals and you will be fine. I'm gonna tell you girls like i tell my nieces, CARRY A KNIFE WITH YOU EVERYWHERE YOU GO. and dont pull it out to threaten people pull it out to stab, as soon as you see an opening.