It's pretty normal. Bring it up casually, see how comfortable she is with the idea, suggest it might be fun for both of you, see what she says. If she outright refuses, you'll probably have to give up any hope.
If she seems like she might be open to the idea (excuse the pun), make sure she knows: you'd be careful to use lots of lube, you'd go slowly, and you'd stop if she's in pain. Then leave it up to her to make the decision.
The main risks are pain for the receiver & 'mess' (along with the smell) - both often an instant mood-killer omitted from most mainstream porn. So be prepared for the guilt of hurting her ass, for having to wipe shit off your dick, and her mortifying embarrassment at her shit being on your dick along with the stains on the bed sheets. You may want to do it in the shower to be on the safe side, although be sure not to wash off the lube as you go.
As long as you both have your facts right about anal sex, you can both make an informed decision
I've had a significant amount of anal sex (with both sexes) in my life, and only dealt with "shitdick" twice. It's not as common of an issue as most people seem to think it is.
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It's pretty normal. Bring it up casually, see how comfortable she is with the idea, suggest it might be fun for both of you, see what she says. If she outright refuses, you'll probably have to give up any hope.
If she seems like she might be open to the idea (excuse the pun), make sure she knows: you'd be careful to use lots of lube, you'd go slowly, and you'd stop if she's in pain. Then leave it up to her to make the decision.
The main risks are pain for the receiver & 'mess' (along with the smell) - both often an instant mood-killer omitted from most mainstream porn. So be prepared for the guilt of hurting her ass, for having to wipe shit off your dick, and her mortifying embarrassment at her shit being on your dick along with the stains on the bed sheets. You may want to do it in the shower to be on the safe side, although be sure not to wash off the lube as you go.
As long as you both have your facts right about anal sex, you can both make an informed decision
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I've had a significant amount of anal sex (with both sexes) in my life, and only dealt with "shitdick" twice. It's not as common of an issue as most people seem to think it is.
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I've had plenty of anal sex too (with several different women), and dealt with shitdick about 4 times.
Regardless, it only takes one time to leave someone mortified and put them off anal for good. So it's still a good idea to be prepared for the worst.