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I love someone so much but they broke up with me. I still love them so much it has been a good couple of months now and everyday it pains me so much and it hurts. I sit ther and cry for hours I even started cutting myself. I love them so much I cant bear to be without them. I just want to kill myself it hurts so much. What should I do?
BTW (theres no chance of getting back together and they are in a relationship)
okay so how many people do you like? you used the word "they". It's plural. Don't end you life for that one reason. Your life is precious. You'll get over that person eventually as time passes. I have quite a bit of friends who feel like you. I advised them to go see the counselor. It worked. Maybe you should do the same.
I hope I helped.
Good luck!
cheers!
I know the feeling. While the girl in question and I never got together, she recently moved, and I may never see her again. She was always the one by my side when I had nobody else. She helped me through everything that went wrong, and gave me the courage and inspiration to continue living when things really started looking down. She was literally my everything, and now that she's gone, it hurts like crazy. I have been up crying almost every night since she left. I want to die too, but I keep telling myself that someone even better will come around eventually, even if I don't know who or when. But, in answer to your question, I say it's normal. Just don't do anything drastic, even though it hurts more than words can describe. This too shall pass; it's not worth killing yourself for.
am actually in a similar situation. before i met my last girlfriend i was a cutter, on suicide watch constantly, i ran away for a year from my parents,i was on a downward spiral. then i met that girl and fell in love and she picked me up. and for 3 years she was the one i turned to to hold me up if i was feeling down. when she broke up with me i felt really terrible. i had no more crutch and i was on my own again. it still hasn't stopped hurting but you need to find your own reasons to live. love is tossed around lightly. there isn't one right person for you. you just need to be open to the fact that there can be another down the road. fill your time with things you like. join some hobby groups and maybe you'll find someone new with similar likes.