You should tell him. If he isn't satisfying you, tell him that you want to try something new. If he can't be aggressive, try something like BDSM, where there's a power dynamic, so that he might not even need to act aggressively, since the situation and fantasy provide it inherently.
If he makes no attempt to satisfy you after you've told him that you feel this way, and suggested things that he could try with you, then break up with him and find someone new. Do not cheat on him. He's bad in the bedroom. That's not a reason to break his heart and his trust.
P.S. A tip might be suggesting an open relationship as a very last resort. However, if he isn't on board and you haven't even asked about a different style of sex, he may take this as you not liking him at all and break up with you.
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You should tell him. If he isn't satisfying you, tell him that you want to try something new. If he can't be aggressive, try something like BDSM, where there's a power dynamic, so that he might not even need to act aggressively, since the situation and fantasy provide it inherently.
If he makes no attempt to satisfy you after you've told him that you feel this way, and suggested things that he could try with you, then break up with him and find someone new. Do not cheat on him. He's bad in the bedroom. That's not a reason to break his heart and his trust.
P.S. A tip might be suggesting an open relationship as a very last resort. However, if he isn't on board and you haven't even asked about a different style of sex, he may take this as you not liking him at all and break up with you.