I think you frankly missed the point that if say you are a sandwich and your goal is to give it to someone you have to first make it a tasty sandwich otherwise you are just giving people a shit sandwich. In my opinion I'd much prefer to be near people who love themselves and have done the work to make themselves happy. They spread positivity and are an inspiration. If someone gives me things but hates themself and is clueless I can't help but receive their insecurities and anxiety. Of course a balance is needed but I do believe you must love yourself before others. Another important question to ask seriously is WHY do you want to be a good person.
I want to become a good person but the advice online is bs.
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I think you frankly missed the point that if say you are a sandwich and your goal is to give it to someone you have to first make it a tasty sandwich otherwise you are just giving people a shit sandwich. In my opinion I'd much prefer to be near people who love themselves and have done the work to make themselves happy. They spread positivity and are an inspiration. If someone gives me things but hates themself and is clueless I can't help but receive their insecurities and anxiety. Of course a balance is needed but I do believe you must love yourself before others. Another important question to ask seriously is WHY do you want to be a good person.