I know it sounds conflicting but truly the best way to help others is to help yourself. People don't learn by you telling them or doing things for them, we all have a journey and you can beat information into someone but until they are ready to learn it you will be wasting your time. Same thing goes towards pleasing others. Everyone has their own set of issues and you don't know what one another is dealing with so the best thing to do is be you, lead by example, and if someone needs help you help them. I've always found that people who try to hard can sometimes be a bit annoying as horrible as that sounds, so maybe just try to do you're thing and if someone wants to join then let them, if not don't take it personally. Let your friends come to you. You can usually sense when someone is into something or not, use your gut.
I want to become a good person but the advice online is bs.
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I know it sounds conflicting but truly the best way to help others is to help yourself. People don't learn by you telling them or doing things for them, we all have a journey and you can beat information into someone but until they are ready to learn it you will be wasting your time. Same thing goes towards pleasing others. Everyone has their own set of issues and you don't know what one another is dealing with so the best thing to do is be you, lead by example, and if someone needs help you help them. I've always found that people who try to hard can sometimes be a bit annoying as horrible as that sounds, so maybe just try to do you're thing and if someone wants to join then let them, if not don't take it personally. Let your friends come to you. You can usually sense when someone is into something or not, use your gut.