I want to become a good person but the advice online is bs.

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  • I come from a very good and holy community, but we moved a month ago.
    Ever since then, the new friends I've made call me these things when I try to do stuff with them.
    I say "lets go do this"
    they say no
    "how about this"
    then they complain and tell me I'm being annoying. All I want to do is to get them to like me but they don't want to do anything with me.
    Then when I tell them it isn't fair they call me b*tchy.

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    • Maybe the problem is finding friends who share your interests.

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      • I'm going to talk it out with them so that we can all do something we like today.

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        • You can be friends with anyone, but you cant force people to do what you want.

          You can try to convince them, but obviously it's still their choice.

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      • Good point!

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    • Well, that sounds straightforward enough, but it's hard to tell without more specific examples of what your new friends suggest and what you suggest. I personally think it's ideal if people can take turns when it comes to deciding what to do for fun. It's not fair the same people get do decide what to do for fun time and time again, it's the best policy in my opinion to take turns. God knows it wouldn't be fair if every time my boyfriend and I went to the movies the same person decided what movie to see each time.

      I am curious as to what would be some examples of some of the suggestions you make and some of the suggestions your new friends make.

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