I've been trying to do stuff that is considered good but people still think I'm not a good person. They call me "b*tchy" and "annoying" to be around.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong though? I've been looking for places to volunteer and everything yet people are up my *ss and saying I'm still bad.
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The only reason I know some things about being good is through the teachings of my parents and my pastor. I want to continue my journey to becoming a good person, but I still don't know enough yet.
If you are not sincere in your actions it doesn't matter how humble, kind or selfless you are. People can spot bullshit a mile away. Make sure to check your motives. Best of luck.
If only one person says you are bitchy or annoying then it's probably not a big deal, but if lots of people are consistently telling you that you are bitchy and annoying then you probably need to take a second look at yourself.
Ask yourself some questions. Do you offer unsolicited advice and opinions? Do you nag other people? Do you use guilt to try to pressure people into doing what you want?
Do the people who say you are bitchy and annoying ever give you specific examples of this?
I come from a very good and holy community, but we moved a month ago.
Ever since then, the new friends I've made call me these things when I try to do stuff with them.
I say "lets go do this"
they say no
"how about this"
then they complain and tell me I'm being annoying. All I want to do is to get them to like me but they don't want to do anything with me.
Then when I tell them it isn't fair they call me b*tchy.
Well, that sounds straightforward enough, but it's hard to tell without more specific examples of what your new friends suggest and what you suggest. I personally think it's ideal if people can take turns when it comes to deciding what to do for fun. It's not fair the same people get do decide what to do for fun time and time again, it's the best policy in my opinion to take turns. God knows it wouldn't be fair if every time my boyfriend and I went to the movies the same person decided what movie to see each time.
I am curious as to what would be some examples of some of the suggestions you make and some of the suggestions your new friends make.
I want to become a good person but the advice online is bs.
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I've been trying to do stuff that is considered good but people still think I'm not a good person. They call me "b*tchy" and "annoying" to be around.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong though? I've been looking for places to volunteer and everything yet people are up my *ss and saying I'm still bad.
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The only reason I know some things about being good is through the teachings of my parents and my pastor. I want to continue my journey to becoming a good person, but I still don't know enough yet.
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If you are not sincere in your actions it doesn't matter how humble, kind or selfless you are. People can spot bullshit a mile away. Make sure to check your motives. Best of luck.
If only one person says you are bitchy or annoying then it's probably not a big deal, but if lots of people are consistently telling you that you are bitchy and annoying then you probably need to take a second look at yourself.
Ask yourself some questions. Do you offer unsolicited advice and opinions? Do you nag other people? Do you use guilt to try to pressure people into doing what you want?
Do the people who say you are bitchy and annoying ever give you specific examples of this?
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I come from a very good and holy community, but we moved a month ago.
Ever since then, the new friends I've made call me these things when I try to do stuff with them.
I say "lets go do this"
they say no
"how about this"
then they complain and tell me I'm being annoying. All I want to do is to get them to like me but they don't want to do anything with me.
Then when I tell them it isn't fair they call me b*tchy.
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Maybe the problem is finding friends who share your interests.
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I'm going to talk it out with them so that we can all do something we like today.
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You can be friends with anyone, but you cant force people to do what you want.
You can try to convince them, but obviously it's still their choice.
Good point!
Well, that sounds straightforward enough, but it's hard to tell without more specific examples of what your new friends suggest and what you suggest. I personally think it's ideal if people can take turns when it comes to deciding what to do for fun. It's not fair the same people get do decide what to do for fun time and time again, it's the best policy in my opinion to take turns. God knows it wouldn't be fair if every time my boyfriend and I went to the movies the same person decided what movie to see each time.
I am curious as to what would be some examples of some of the suggestions you make and some of the suggestions your new friends make.