You probably need a father figure. I would not advise you to find older men, as they'll just want to fuck you and nothing else. Finding older mentors/father figures is a rare sight, that's why it's so apparent in hollywood and media.
Perhaps your outlook and attitudes have prevented you from encountering the quality males within the human herd. A decent man will sense low-life riff-raff and shun them in totality. Thus, for you, it is possible that the finest males, the Alpha Males of the cohort, have ensured you could not encounter what a quality person with morals will engage with.
I disagree, there are many guys that never had kids that wish they did, myself included. I would welcome a 25 yr old female if I knew her enough to know her true intentions. I'm sick of people stealing shit from me that claim to be a friend. But yes, I could very well be friends with someone like her and I could even keep it totally plutonic. But then for others it depends on their morals and integrity. There doesnt seem to have either of those anymore.
I also develop platonic friendships with younger ladies.
I know a number of other men who do as well.
Not all men are automatically looking for sex. Many of us are decent folk.
Now, I will admit that sex could happen; but I am incredibly selective for that and have an actual record of meeting over 400 younger ladies to offer mentoring and possible friendship over many years - and only 1 of those seriously peaked my interest as a romantic partner (Hint: mental maturity, shared goals and interest, and multi-month long term interest in each other are far more important to me than availability and willingness).
I want to be friends with a man old enough to be my dad...
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You probably need a father figure. I would not advise you to find older men, as they'll just want to fuck you and nothing else. Finding older mentors/father figures is a rare sight, that's why it's so apparent in hollywood and media.
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"nothing else."
No possible exceptions, right?
Perhaps your outlook and attitudes have prevented you from encountering the quality males within the human herd. A decent man will sense low-life riff-raff and shun them in totality. Thus, for you, it is possible that the finest males, the Alpha Males of the cohort, have ensured you could not encounter what a quality person with morals will engage with.
Not all of them would do that. Many, yes. But some will be more than capable of having an appropriate relationship.
I disagree, there are many guys that never had kids that wish they did, myself included. I would welcome a 25 yr old female if I knew her enough to know her true intentions. I'm sick of people stealing shit from me that claim to be a friend. But yes, I could very well be friends with someone like her and I could even keep it totally plutonic. But then for others it depends on their morals and integrity. There doesnt seem to have either of those anymore.
I also develop platonic friendships with younger ladies.
I know a number of other men who do as well.
Not all men are automatically looking for sex. Many of us are decent folk.
Now, I will admit that sex could happen; but I am incredibly selective for that and have an actual record of meeting over 400 younger ladies to offer mentoring and possible friendship over many years - and only 1 of those seriously peaked my interest as a romantic partner (Hint: mental maturity, shared goals and interest, and multi-month long term interest in each other are far more important to me than availability and willingness).