If you're ok with whoring yourself out (its selling sex so it is a form or prostitution) go for it! You also must have a need for male attention...most of those girls do.
Every stripper I have ever known though has said that it sucks away a piece of your soul and many of them were heavy drinkers and drug users while they were dancing.
Also, depending on the club its not just dancing. Some clubs have live lesbian sex shows on stage and a lot of these girls end up doing sexual favours when presented with large amounts of money. It ain't always just dancing sweetie.
Also, depending on what career path you take this could come back to haunt you. We live in the information age where people can find out pretty much anything about you, so bear that in mind to that the senior partners at, lets say a large prestigious law firm, would definitely pass up someone with a shady employment history, simply because if it ever got out it would embarrass the firm. I know of law firms that make you sign contracts that state that there is nothing that could come to light down the road that would embarrass or damage the reputation of the law firm. And I work in a big firm so I should know.
Why don't you try doing something less frowned upon, because lets face it, people still frown upon this line of work. You can say it doesnt matter to you but it will when men refuse to seriously date you because of it, or your family finds out and gets upset over it or the above future job situation presents itself.
Burlesque is a great way to make money, its sexy without that unpleasant element to it that stripping has and gives you a chance to show off your dancing skills.
Or be a server at a high end restaurant. They make a killing all with keeping their clothes on, or be a bartender or a shooter girl at a club. There are plenty of ways to make good money while still maintaining your dignity.
1) Being a pole dancer is not easy and takes a lot of athletic prowess. It's not selling a blowjob, or selling a fuck.
2) I have a need for money. Men are men. They are there.
3) Well, I guess I'll have to find out for myself :). I am not a drug user or alcohol abuser, but thanks for the heads up, useless as it may have been.
4) I decide what it is and isn't, sweetie.
5) I also don't plan on working at a law firm. I think it's funny you mention a law firm because I know a few corporate lawyers, doctors, bankers, and the like, who participate in pretty illicit activity. Ah it's a hoot. you think the people you work for are saints. HA.
6) I don't care about people who don't care about me.
1.) If you think the men watching you are admiring your athletic skill you are wrong. You are selling a blow job or a "fuck" or whatever else they have on their minds...its a STRIP CLUB not the Pole Dancing Olympics so don't kid yourself.
2.) I have just listed several lucrative ways to make money without having to be in that kind of environment that still involve sucking money out of men. You think men won't tip a good looking waitress well? Or a hot shooter girl at a dance club? They will. I have worked in that industry and I am a very good looking woman ;)so I know first hand.
3.) If you have not spoken to anyone who has worked in the industry I suggest that you do, because it seems that you really don't know what you are getting yourself into. The girls I went to high school with who went down that path weren't addicts when they started but became that way because it is a hell of a lot easier to take your clothes off in front of a bunch of strange men when you are drunk or high off your ass.
4.) You say that now, that you will decide what you will and will not do. There is a price on everything you say...so how much will it take to get a blow job or fuck from you? $50, $200, $500 $1000? And like another poster said, there is lots of prostitution that goes on in these places and if you aren't putting out you won't have many clients and wont make that much money. So again, what's your price?
5.) I am well aware of corporate corruption, however, corporations and business men still have images to maintain and reputations that they do not want tarnished. It doesn't matter what goes in outside the office but they don't want to bring any of that riff raff into the office which could potentially embarrass them or damage their reputation in the business world. I am not that naive and I do have life experience, something you seem yo be lacking (you sound young).
6.) Those famous words..I don't care. You do care. If you really truly did not care you would not have bothered answering my post, nor would you have posted this topic to begin with. The fact that you came on the internet seeking approval from strangers means that you do care what other people think. And you are clearly not sure of this choice as you felt the need to ask strangers for their reassurance. And then you sit there listing reasons trying to justify your choices. Who are you trying to convince? me or yourself? I have a feeling its the latter.
7.) You can be a go-go dancer at a night club they make good coin and get to keep their skimpy outfits on at least.
1) Yeah, that will be part of what they're admiring, sure. No, I wouldn't be selling a sexual favor. I'd be selling a fantasy and entertainment.
2) None of what you listed was really "lucrative".
3) I know you want to think everyone is a potential drug addict, but some of us just don't like drugs.
4) Well, a 1000 is not enough to hit this.
5) Corporate corruption? No, that's not what I meant. I meant they certainly dabble in prostitution and drugs.
6)I thought it would be an interesting post. I surely wanted to see what people would say. My mind is made. This post has nothing to do with my personal contacts.
I want to be a stripper....
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If you're ok with whoring yourself out (its selling sex so it is a form or prostitution) go for it! You also must have a need for male attention...most of those girls do.
Every stripper I have ever known though has said that it sucks away a piece of your soul and many of them were heavy drinkers and drug users while they were dancing.
Also, depending on the club its not just dancing. Some clubs have live lesbian sex shows on stage and a lot of these girls end up doing sexual favours when presented with large amounts of money. It ain't always just dancing sweetie.
Also, depending on what career path you take this could come back to haunt you. We live in the information age where people can find out pretty much anything about you, so bear that in mind to that the senior partners at, lets say a large prestigious law firm, would definitely pass up someone with a shady employment history, simply because if it ever got out it would embarrass the firm. I know of law firms that make you sign contracts that state that there is nothing that could come to light down the road that would embarrass or damage the reputation of the law firm. And I work in a big firm so I should know.
Why don't you try doing something less frowned upon, because lets face it, people still frown upon this line of work. You can say it doesnt matter to you but it will when men refuse to seriously date you because of it, or your family finds out and gets upset over it or the above future job situation presents itself.
Burlesque is a great way to make money, its sexy without that unpleasant element to it that stripping has and gives you a chance to show off your dancing skills.
Or be a server at a high end restaurant. They make a killing all with keeping their clothes on, or be a bartender or a shooter girl at a club. There are plenty of ways to make good money while still maintaining your dignity.
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1) Being a pole dancer is not easy and takes a lot of athletic prowess. It's not selling a blowjob, or selling a fuck.
2) I have a need for money. Men are men. They are there.
3) Well, I guess I'll have to find out for myself :). I am not a drug user or alcohol abuser, but thanks for the heads up, useless as it may have been.
4) I decide what it is and isn't, sweetie.
5) I also don't plan on working at a law firm. I think it's funny you mention a law firm because I know a few corporate lawyers, doctors, bankers, and the like, who participate in pretty illicit activity. Ah it's a hoot. you think the people you work for are saints. HA.
6) I don't care about people who don't care about me.
7)I want to swing on a pole and do crazy tricks.
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1.) If you think the men watching you are admiring your athletic skill you are wrong. You are selling a blow job or a "fuck" or whatever else they have on their minds...its a STRIP CLUB not the Pole Dancing Olympics so don't kid yourself.
2.) I have just listed several lucrative ways to make money without having to be in that kind of environment that still involve sucking money out of men. You think men won't tip a good looking waitress well? Or a hot shooter girl at a dance club? They will. I have worked in that industry and I am a very good looking woman ;)so I know first hand.
3.) If you have not spoken to anyone who has worked in the industry I suggest that you do, because it seems that you really don't know what you are getting yourself into. The girls I went to high school with who went down that path weren't addicts when they started but became that way because it is a hell of a lot easier to take your clothes off in front of a bunch of strange men when you are drunk or high off your ass.
4.) You say that now, that you will decide what you will and will not do. There is a price on everything you say...so how much will it take to get a blow job or fuck from you? $50, $200, $500 $1000? And like another poster said, there is lots of prostitution that goes on in these places and if you aren't putting out you won't have many clients and wont make that much money. So again, what's your price?
5.) I am well aware of corporate corruption, however, corporations and business men still have images to maintain and reputations that they do not want tarnished. It doesn't matter what goes in outside the office but they don't want to bring any of that riff raff into the office which could potentially embarrass them or damage their reputation in the business world. I am not that naive and I do have life experience, something you seem yo be lacking (you sound young).
6.) Those famous words..I don't care. You do care. If you really truly did not care you would not have bothered answering my post, nor would you have posted this topic to begin with. The fact that you came on the internet seeking approval from strangers means that you do care what other people think. And you are clearly not sure of this choice as you felt the need to ask strangers for their reassurance. And then you sit there listing reasons trying to justify your choices. Who are you trying to convince? me or yourself? I have a feeling its the latter.
7.) You can be a go-go dancer at a night club they make good coin and get to keep their skimpy outfits on at least.
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1) Yeah, that will be part of what they're admiring, sure. No, I wouldn't be selling a sexual favor. I'd be selling a fantasy and entertainment.
2) None of what you listed was really "lucrative".
3) I know you want to think everyone is a potential drug addict, but some of us just don't like drugs.
4) Well, a 1000 is not enough to hit this.
5) Corporate corruption? No, that's not what I meant. I meant they certainly dabble in prostitution and drugs.
6)I thought it would be an interesting post. I surely wanted to see what people would say. My mind is made. This post has nothing to do with my personal contacts.