I want this girl i'm interested in to lose weight

She's cute, but way too heavy - I don't mind heavy, but she's beyond the threshold of acceptably overweight (you know when they start to lose their female form and turn into a big bloated muffin))... I want to date her but get her to start losing weight right away. I am wondering if I can influence her eating habits and get her to go on hikes with me and stuff. I'm guessing she must be depressed.

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  • normi

    You should first focus on why you like her, instead of thinking how to modify her as if she were a product. She will lose weight if she wants to do so, that is her choice. If you truly like her, you should pursue her Overweight as she is. Or let her be.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Ask her out for a hike, a yoga class, or something.

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  • mauzi

    dumb trolling, if her weight makes her unattractive to you - as you said she doesn't even have a female form - then in what way can you be "interested in" her enough to date? her "personality" that made her fat in the first place and that you're hoping to change? you should focus on your own depression first instead of projecting. It's not normal to want someone so you can "fix" them.

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  • AMERICANsavage

    Oh wow this one is gonna be good

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  • soniiiety

    we need to reduce obesity! we must cure depression and anxiety, yes it will be good if you can influence them and help them.

    ofcourse, you can still be their friend alland love them.

    anyone who says"you should forget about their weight and stick to who they are"

    yall missing something, they might die from diabetes(hope not) and from not healthy eating.

    why bother only likeing them for just who they are, if your not gonna acknowledge their weight and ways to help them?

    im mean people are avoiding problems in their life because of their selfish desires and depression and because of so they feel good.

    people take life so lightly, you need to treat yall bodies and life with respect and gratitude, anyone could die in the next days/hours from being like that.

    same with people who are too skinny, get weight, and become average.

    you must because more than your original, I know we all make mistakes and no one is perfect, but we can try!.

    I hope I can motivate,give determination adn hope with inspiration to people to bring back what was hidden and lost and given away/stolen.

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  • leggs91200

    By the time she lost any noticeable weight, you would be bored with the relationship.

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