This is actually normal.
Many women don't know how a relationship should work out and they allow themselves to get tangled up in emotionally turbulent relationships. He sounds as if he is unstable and you sound as if you're too attached to him and the hope of gaining his approval to think clearly about this, your emotions are not permitting you to think.
He is not ready for a relationship and nothing you can do will change that. He obviously doesn't take relationships seriously and it seems like he really doesn't even know what he wants. He doesn't take your feelings seriously and I can guess that part of it is because you're so overly emotional, when you act out constantly it becomes easy to accept. Part of it is your problem for allowing yourself to let your emotions overwhlem you constantly.
You're not going to change him, and you need to change yourself because you don't seem to be ready for a relationship either, as you obviously lack the ability to keep a cool head and not lose yourself every time you get upset. Quit your romantic relations with him and find another area of your life that could benefit from your attention. It's really the only way out of this.
I want some special consideration from my Bf, is it normal?
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This is actually normal.
Many women don't know how a relationship should work out and they allow themselves to get tangled up in emotionally turbulent relationships. He sounds as if he is unstable and you sound as if you're too attached to him and the hope of gaining his approval to think clearly about this, your emotions are not permitting you to think.
He is not ready for a relationship and nothing you can do will change that. He obviously doesn't take relationships seriously and it seems like he really doesn't even know what he wants. He doesn't take your feelings seriously and I can guess that part of it is because you're so overly emotional, when you act out constantly it becomes easy to accept. Part of it is your problem for allowing yourself to let your emotions overwhlem you constantly.
You're not going to change him, and you need to change yourself because you don't seem to be ready for a relationship either, as you obviously lack the ability to keep a cool head and not lose yourself every time you get upset. Quit your romantic relations with him and find another area of your life that could benefit from your attention. It's really the only way out of this.