My wife and I talked about this for several years. She started with make out sessions with a male friend with whom she used to have occassional sex, prior to meeting me. They used to "hook up" at their annual high school reunions. Sometimes, there will be an "after party" party, at someone's house. About 3 years ago, we had the after party at our house. My wife had a few drinks. At one point, she grabbed my hand, and his hand and dragged us both into another room, where we could be alone. She had me watch the two of them make out, for a minute or so. Later that night, after a few more drinks, she and he kept disappearing for 10-15 minutes at a time. The next morning she told me that they had been sneaking off for some heavy, groping make out sessions and that she even gave him a blow job, behind some bushes, but they did not have time to finish him off, before other people were too near. About a week later, I took all of our kids to an amusement park for the day and my wife stayed home. He called, while we were gone, because he had left a hat at our house. She knew we would be gone for several hours, so she invited him over to "finish what she had started".
She did. He came over, very quickly. They made out for a while, then they got naked and he fingered her for about 20-30 minutes, then she gave him a blow job. He came in her mouth and she swallowed.
They have had many other hook ups, since, and she eventually confessed that they had been having these make out sessions for about 10 years prior to my knowing. I wasn't upset.
Since then, she has had countless hook ups with ex-boyfriends. I make a lot of money, so I even paid for her, and the one ex boyfriend that she thought was the hottest, to go to Hawaii for a week. I even drove her to the motel, near the airport, the night before, because they had to be at the airport, very early in the morning, and were worried about possible traffic problems. I dropped her off and he was already in the room. From what she tells me, within about 5 minutes, they were humping like rabbits.
Yes, it was kind of intimidating because she had always described him as one of the best looking men she had ever seen, even in movies. Turns out he's well built and, well, she described "it" as "a monster". Hung like a horse and can go on and on for several hours, only coming when she is almost unable to continue. At least for a while.
Their first night, the had sex 5 times.
I loved hearing about how turned on she gets, what she does with the other guys, and what she learns. We have encorporated the things she found that she likes, into our own sex life. We've been together for a few weeks short of 25 years.
The only thing I don't like is that she particularly enjoys the "newness" and the excitement of being with someone new (even though they had been together, before we met, except for the most recent guy, who has become a friend in just the last 4 years or so). She gets aroused, herself, by simply knowing that she is getting them so aroused. When we first got together, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. When she gets a new "boy toy", she can't keep her hands, or mouth, off of him and gets excited to do things that she doesn't do with me, anymore. She always swallows, with the new guys, but never does with me. She stays up, all night, humping, blowing, getting licked, etc. With me, she needs to be asleep by 11:00 or midnight. I realize that their is a very high "novelty" factor, as well as a titilatting "taboo" factor. She is an especially beautiful woman, so she has no problem finding willing partners. I just wish I could get her that aroused, and wish she would "give me some of that", referring to the strong sexual craving. After almost 25 years, that "craving" that we initially had for each other, and that she now has only with her new "friends with benefits", has waned to "better than masturbating, I suppose."
I look at is as a gift that I am giving her. I know of no couples, that have been together for 10+ years, that find the same "sexual elation" that they had, in the beginning. I can give my wife this gift, she always comes home, and she loves only me. In fact, she learned to appreciate me, even more, while on that week-long Hawaiian hump-fest. Spending 24 hours a day with that guy really let her see the all of his many faults. They got in several fights and she even called me, on about the 3rd day, wanting to get a ticket and fly back home because he was being such a jerk. She realized how much she really loves me.
They made up, and went even had make-up sex, that night, but she says she doesn't want to spend that much time with him, ever again. Meet up, flirt, make out, have hot sex, sleep, then come back home, to me. No strings attached, no need to call each other the next day, or on each other's birthdays. Just friends who have hot sex, once in a while.
and I am a very lucky man.
There have only been 3 men, but we also know that each of them was in long-term, exclusive relationships, prior to these games and they are all drug and disease-free.
I want my wife to have sex with other men !
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My wife and I talked about this for several years. She started with make out sessions with a male friend with whom she used to have occassional sex, prior to meeting me. They used to "hook up" at their annual high school reunions. Sometimes, there will be an "after party" party, at someone's house. About 3 years ago, we had the after party at our house. My wife had a few drinks. At one point, she grabbed my hand, and his hand and dragged us both into another room, where we could be alone. She had me watch the two of them make out, for a minute or so. Later that night, after a few more drinks, she and he kept disappearing for 10-15 minutes at a time. The next morning she told me that they had been sneaking off for some heavy, groping make out sessions and that she even gave him a blow job, behind some bushes, but they did not have time to finish him off, before other people were too near. About a week later, I took all of our kids to an amusement park for the day and my wife stayed home. He called, while we were gone, because he had left a hat at our house. She knew we would be gone for several hours, so she invited him over to "finish what she had started".
She did. He came over, very quickly. They made out for a while, then they got naked and he fingered her for about 20-30 minutes, then she gave him a blow job. He came in her mouth and she swallowed.
They have had many other hook ups, since, and she eventually confessed that they had been having these make out sessions for about 10 years prior to my knowing. I wasn't upset.
Since then, she has had countless hook ups with ex-boyfriends. I make a lot of money, so I even paid for her, and the one ex boyfriend that she thought was the hottest, to go to Hawaii for a week. I even drove her to the motel, near the airport, the night before, because they had to be at the airport, very early in the morning, and were worried about possible traffic problems. I dropped her off and he was already in the room. From what she tells me, within about 5 minutes, they were humping like rabbits.
Yes, it was kind of intimidating because she had always described him as one of the best looking men she had ever seen, even in movies. Turns out he's well built and, well, she described "it" as "a monster". Hung like a horse and can go on and on for several hours, only coming when she is almost unable to continue. At least for a while.
Their first night, the had sex 5 times.
I loved hearing about how turned on she gets, what she does with the other guys, and what she learns. We have encorporated the things she found that she likes, into our own sex life. We've been together for a few weeks short of 25 years.
The only thing I don't like is that she particularly enjoys the "newness" and the excitement of being with someone new (even though they had been together, before we met, except for the most recent guy, who has become a friend in just the last 4 years or so). She gets aroused, herself, by simply knowing that she is getting them so aroused. When we first got together, we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. When she gets a new "boy toy", she can't keep her hands, or mouth, off of him and gets excited to do things that she doesn't do with me, anymore. She always swallows, with the new guys, but never does with me. She stays up, all night, humping, blowing, getting licked, etc. With me, she needs to be asleep by 11:00 or midnight. I realize that their is a very high "novelty" factor, as well as a titilatting "taboo" factor. She is an especially beautiful woman, so she has no problem finding willing partners. I just wish I could get her that aroused, and wish she would "give me some of that", referring to the strong sexual craving. After almost 25 years, that "craving" that we initially had for each other, and that she now has only with her new "friends with benefits", has waned to "better than masturbating, I suppose."
I look at is as a gift that I am giving her. I know of no couples, that have been together for 10+ years, that find the same "sexual elation" that they had, in the beginning. I can give my wife this gift, she always comes home, and she loves only me. In fact, she learned to appreciate me, even more, while on that week-long Hawaiian hump-fest. Spending 24 hours a day with that guy really let her see the all of his many faults. They got in several fights and she even called me, on about the 3rd day, wanting to get a ticket and fly back home because he was being such a jerk. She realized how much she really loves me.
They made up, and went even had make-up sex, that night, but she says she doesn't want to spend that much time with him, ever again. Meet up, flirt, make out, have hot sex, sleep, then come back home, to me. No strings attached, no need to call each other the next day, or on each other's birthdays. Just friends who have hot sex, once in a while.
and I am a very lucky man.
There have only been 3 men, but we also know that each of them was in long-term, exclusive relationships, prior to these games and they are all drug and disease-free.