I want a loud sloppy one.

I can't get my wife to get real loud and sloppy when she gives me head. She says it's too messy and she feels degraded. I sweet talk her but no dice. She makes it a little wet but that's all. My buddy at work says he knows a hooker that will do me fine. Cheap too. Would it be normal to go that route? We both don't see it as cheating on our wives. He sure is a happy camper.