I've been trying to analyze the bad boy attraction thing for years and years now as I've always been interested in human behavior.
My biggest theory is that it comes from a very old inborn instinct to be attracted to someone that can take care of you. Not that long ago before modern society exited that would have been a tough guy that can lead, hunt and fight instead of a smart, nice, and intelligent man.
Next theory is that it would make you feel awfully special if you were the one that was finally able to bring out his softer side that no one else ever could.
Another theory is that it would make you popular and also feel superior to all the other girls that want him.
One more is that it's more of a burden to have a relationship with a nice guy that is really into you because you may not be sure if you're going to stay interested and don't want to go through losing his friendship, hurting his feelings or listen to his whining if it doesn't work out or if someone more appealing comes around.
Good luck, and from my experience "bad boys" are usually not "good guys" and would probably turn into him pressing you for sexual relations, oral sex and using you for favors like paying for things and driving him places.
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I've been trying to analyze the bad boy attraction thing for years and years now as I've always been interested in human behavior.
My biggest theory is that it comes from a very old inborn instinct to be attracted to someone that can take care of you. Not that long ago before modern society exited that would have been a tough guy that can lead, hunt and fight instead of a smart, nice, and intelligent man.
Next theory is that it would make you feel awfully special if you were the one that was finally able to bring out his softer side that no one else ever could.
Another theory is that it would make you popular and also feel superior to all the other girls that want him.
One more is that it's more of a burden to have a relationship with a nice guy that is really into you because you may not be sure if you're going to stay interested and don't want to go through losing his friendship, hurting his feelings or listen to his whining if it doesn't work out or if someone more appealing comes around.
Good luck, and from my experience "bad boys" are usually not "good guys" and would probably turn into him pressing you for sexual relations, oral sex and using you for favors like paying for things and driving him places.