I want a bad boy

ok, i am a somewhat goody 2 shoes but there is this guy i like at school i mean i mean like to a point of infatuation. he is like the guy who is all wrong for you and you know it, but you don't care? well, yeah that him. i know he is player but he is addicting. he is cute, funny, bad, sexy as hell, and so on......but is it normal to want a bad boy, even if you know he isn't good for you?

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Based on 96 votes (78 yes)
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  • psychedelnick

    I would say that is completely normal. The only problem with the bad boys is this. You really have to be careful. If he is really a bad boy he might try to pressure you into things like, sex, drugs, drinking, etc. Just be careful and make good decisions.

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  • foxy_loxy

    It is very very normal... But you need to be careful and make the correct decisions about yourself...hang out with him, have good and safe sex with him, but make sure not to harm yourself in any ways, physically or psychologically...
    Most bad boys have a good and soft element deep within their heart...It is up to you if you can bring out the best out of him...Good Luck !

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  • coolio75650932

    *punchs a little girl in the face* yeah im bad

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  • Geneva5

    Just smoke a joint with him and fuck / it will be great.

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  • softball

    I'd rather be with the good guy who treats you right, respects your parents, loves you, wants to be with you forever, and marry you. Those sorta things. Theres nothing about a "bad boy" I want. Maybe I'm abnormal! Lol

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  • Sabbatha

    I love bad boys. Fun to date but I wouldn't suggest marrying one.

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  • teddygraham(:

    my life story lol i love bad boys too ;) i'm kind of like you, i get good grades and do what i'm supposed yada yada yada but i've also done some not so goody two shoes things too but no matter what, bad boys i will always have a thing for

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  • digitalbroken

    Yes, it's normal--it's somewhat of a phenomenon, actually, that many people have many theories about. However, it just seems like many women tend to gravitate toward the "bad boy" type of person. Oddly enough, often it even seems they respond better to abuse and mistreatment than to a "nice guy" attitude.

    That is not universal, however, and it is likely a culmination of experiences and upbringing which spark those types of feelings or actions.

    But sadly, it is normal. And coming from a nice guy, it can certainly be frustrating! :)

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    • animalcracker

      "And coming from a nice guy, it can certainly be frustrating! :)" Tell me about it -.-

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Yeah I had this things for serial rapists...who would have thought that he would have raped me. I dint see it coming I swears. I met him familywatchdog, I thought it was new age dating website

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  • Sure. Maybe you can have his bad boy baby and go on welfare and pine for the loser who will look all the more wonderful from there.

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  • lostinspace

    It is a basic animal instinct. Females of all species often have an attraction to males that can protect them, protect their offspring that sort of thing. It's also a good sign that they will be good hunters etc. From the fact you mention having 2 shoes in your post I am guessing you are human, so in your case I think it is quite normal.

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  • honeybuns

    I've been trying to analyze the bad boy attraction thing for years and years now as I've always been interested in human behavior.

    My biggest theory is that it comes from a very old inborn instinct to be attracted to someone that can take care of you. Not that long ago before modern society exited that would have been a tough guy that can lead, hunt and fight instead of a smart, nice, and intelligent man.

    Next theory is that it would make you feel awfully special if you were the one that was finally able to bring out his softer side that no one else ever could.

    Another theory is that it would make you popular and also feel superior to all the other girls that want him.

    One more is that it's more of a burden to have a relationship with a nice guy that is really into you because you may not be sure if you're going to stay interested and don't want to go through losing his friendship, hurting his feelings or listen to his whining if it doesn't work out or if someone more appealing comes around.

    Good luck, and from my experience "bad boys" are usually not "good guys" and would probably turn into him pressing you for sexual relations, oral sex and using you for favors like paying for things and driving him places.

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  • norMall

    Its a teenage thing,girls want bad cool boys at that age ,excitement,dangerous,sex,sex,sex...hormones on fire young lady ,its normal

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  • pinkbutterfly

    I totally understand what you mean
    Absolutley normal, to be honest I think most girls go through that

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