I wanna have sex with him, but i'm a bit scared

Ya might want to ask him how he feels? If you can't talk about it you probably should not fuck him.

Nothing wrong with sex, I am very sexual myself, usually...

But, that doesn't mean you HAVE to be sexual, especially if your guy is a virgin and isn't in any hurry.

If ya love him and ya want it to be special, then wait until you both feel you are ready. Sex does change things, whether it changes them for the better or worse is up to you.

There is no hurry after all.

October - Returning Princess

just do it with him
!!!!!
cause if you guys break up ever at least you can be proud of yourself for making him a MAN!!!

My first was really experienced and I was not. It took some time, she felt the same way you did, we waited until we were both ready. If you have patience and get the time to really know each other, itll be worth the wait.

Nah that won't happen if you care for eachother, have sex and express how you truly feel.

Just fuck him. Stop thinking about it so much and just enjoy the ride.

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a male virgin?

that's not attractive. but kind of cute in a creepy, nerdy way.

theres nothin wrong wit dat,just talk to ur boyfriend.

Firstly, is he ready to loose his virginity? Or are you just assuming? If he is and your nervous feeling is the only thing holding you back...I think I would wait until I felt absolutely certain that sex wouldn't change how you two act if you want to stat with him

I think it depends on if he's ready to have sex. I'm a sexual person too but sex can change things in a good way too not only in a bad way. I think it's normal to be scared but hecks if you both want it then go for it! it could end up being a good thing:)

well if you dont want things to change dont have sex

Dont have sex, it changes everything. Next hes gona wana fart and eat like a pig.

Like me, im a man. And after we had sex and now know we are the shit. We usualy end up to be shit. Every dude is just like me, im their dark side waiting to pop. And what can make a man pop? Sex, we brag about it, it never stays in the bedroom. So hey, go gay. Or just put on that sexy number, and get him going. If i could have my first time again. Id get two girls that will know what to do and teach me some leasons.

So you are afraid to trade Love for Sex.

Kind of a paradox, one leads to the other and at the same time kills what lead it there. Kind of like drinking poisoned water to stay alive.

Well if you don't drink [have sex with him] you will eventually die [the relationship will end], then on the other hand if you do drink the water [have sex with him] you will die [the relationship will end].

Either way, same result...so go ahead and have sex. At least this way you will have the experience to remember.

Does your boy friend know you are not a virgin? If he does not, he may want you to be one too.

Also, if he wants to have sex with you, and you hold off, he will wonder why he is less desirable than the other men you had sex with.

just talk to him about it to him and tell him you are ready when he is

I don't think you should anyway.. Cause if you truly love him and care about your relationship.. You wouldn't do something that you think might screw things up between both of you. If you're scared of it then, don't do it.. End of story.

I'm slightly annoyed.

I am an attractive man who is tired of my heavier girlfriend but I stay with her. However, how the hell can I find people like you who just enjoys sex in general?