Hello. I have a feeling you may be the same OP I am talking to on the other post.
Either way I will try to give what advice I can.
I don't agree with the arguments many people use against suicide, such as it being a permanent solution to a temporary problem, because while that is often true, it's kind of a fuck you towards anyone with a permanent problem. Crisis lines and councilors are often very unhelpful and can even sometimes be the opposite of help to someone with serious issues. Especially if the therapist has not been through the same thing.
Some things I can comment on suicide though because it has effected me. I lost a very close friend to suicide in 2011. I knew him since childhood and his death effected a lot of people. I have heard stories of suicide causing a contagious reaction because it makes those close to them question if life is even worth living.
It's true some people live their whole life never feeling joy. It's true some people suffer their entire life. I definitely think the negativity in life highly outweighs anything that's ever good but that doesn't mean they're aren't good things as well.
It's also true that we don't seem to have a written future. I doubt anyone can truly know what will happen next. Some people who are billionaires or even kings lose everything. Some people who are terminally ill and homeless win the lottery the same day a cure is found.
I don't know why we're here, but we are so why not do what we can with what we got. I've wondered myself if this reality we're currently in is where life is incarnated as a punishment for something done elsewhere like some sort of hell, but if this is indeed hell then why not try to make it a better place while were here instead of escaping into the unknown. It's not like were stuck here for eternity anyway so what's the rush?
(quote) It's not like were stuck here for eternity anyway so what's the rush?
that part really got me thinking cause either way we gonna die so what's the rush.
if we gonna die either way then we mite as well do what ever good we can to/for the world.cause only are actions effect's others and reality even after we die what we done/left behind is being build upon.
if i live once why live a selfish life when really im just bringing everyone else down.and in the end i leave hurt full people,even people i destroyed.
im not a selfish person im just saying living a selfish life in this life/world is not really smart at all wile the world is all ready going through hell.
we should all grow and help other's so that we can leave inspiration for other's and give other's meaning and belive to move on with life.
what i'm saying
we should help each other to grow.
i always though of life as this.
i'm not here to be my self but to become more then what i came here as/to be.
please respond i would love to hear what you have to say about this.
It seems you are thinking more positively now. We should help each other grow and inspire people. Suicide does not help anybody and only inspires sadness. There is already plenty of that.
i wan to die
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Hello. I have a feeling you may be the same OP I am talking to on the other post.
Either way I will try to give what advice I can.
I don't agree with the arguments many people use against suicide, such as it being a permanent solution to a temporary problem, because while that is often true, it's kind of a fuck you towards anyone with a permanent problem. Crisis lines and councilors are often very unhelpful and can even sometimes be the opposite of help to someone with serious issues. Especially if the therapist has not been through the same thing.
Some things I can comment on suicide though because it has effected me. I lost a very close friend to suicide in 2011. I knew him since childhood and his death effected a lot of people. I have heard stories of suicide causing a contagious reaction because it makes those close to them question if life is even worth living.
It's true some people live their whole life never feeling joy. It's true some people suffer their entire life. I definitely think the negativity in life highly outweighs anything that's ever good but that doesn't mean they're aren't good things as well.
It's also true that we don't seem to have a written future. I doubt anyone can truly know what will happen next. Some people who are billionaires or even kings lose everything. Some people who are terminally ill and homeless win the lottery the same day a cure is found.
I don't know why we're here, but we are so why not do what we can with what we got. I've wondered myself if this reality we're currently in is where life is incarnated as a punishment for something done elsewhere like some sort of hell, but if this is indeed hell then why not try to make it a better place while were here instead of escaping into the unknown. It's not like were stuck here for eternity anyway so what's the rush?
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(quote) It's not like were stuck here for eternity anyway so what's the rush?
that part really got me thinking cause either way we gonna die so what's the rush.
if we gonna die either way then we mite as well do what ever good we can to/for the world.cause only are actions effect's others and reality even after we die what we done/left behind is being build upon.
if i live once why live a selfish life when really im just bringing everyone else down.and in the end i leave hurt full people,even people i destroyed.
im not a selfish person im just saying living a selfish life in this life/world is not really smart at all wile the world is all ready going through hell.
we should all grow and help other's so that we can leave inspiration for other's and give other's meaning and belive to move on with life.
what i'm saying
we should help each other to grow.
i always though of life as this.
i'm not here to be my self but to become more then what i came here as/to be.
please respond i would love to hear what you have to say about this.
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It seems you are thinking more positively now. We should help each other grow and inspire people. Suicide does not help anybody and only inspires sadness. There is already plenty of that.