It is a little bit unusual to be so into reading the blog of your fiancee's ex.... If for no other reason than the fact that your fiancee is likely to feel uncomfortable about it.... If it were me in that situation, I would personally be wondering why there is so much curiosity about my ex when that same curiosity could be used to connect (us) together more as a couple if it were focused between us rather than on an ex.
The thing is, you've told him the truth and you have technically done nothing "wrong". He probably did over react a little bit from what you are describing, but there is no need to be worried at all... Both of you need to just keep in mind that you love each other, forgive one another, and move along to work on making things better rather than focusing any more on the "issue"...
The thing to think about for yourself here is, which is more important to you? Your fiancee and knowing him even better, OR getting to know his ex girlfriend better? If the answer is your fiancee, then stay true to him and dump the ex-GF blog... It wont hurt you to stop that, and it might even open up an opportunity for you to connect with your fiancee more. -I.e. instead of studying his ex, take that time to study him. Hopefully, he will in turn become even more curious about you too, and that may in due time lead to some very satisfying feelings for you both to know each other better than any one else on the planet. Seek intimacy within your relationship! Your marriage will eventually depend upon it. :)
I visit my fiance's ex-girlfriend's blog everyday.
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It is a little bit unusual to be so into reading the blog of your fiancee's ex.... If for no other reason than the fact that your fiancee is likely to feel uncomfortable about it.... If it were me in that situation, I would personally be wondering why there is so much curiosity about my ex when that same curiosity could be used to connect (us) together more as a couple if it were focused between us rather than on an ex.
The thing is, you've told him the truth and you have technically done nothing "wrong". He probably did over react a little bit from what you are describing, but there is no need to be worried at all... Both of you need to just keep in mind that you love each other, forgive one another, and move along to work on making things better rather than focusing any more on the "issue"...
The thing to think about for yourself here is, which is more important to you? Your fiancee and knowing him even better, OR getting to know his ex girlfriend better? If the answer is your fiancee, then stay true to him and dump the ex-GF blog... It wont hurt you to stop that, and it might even open up an opportunity for you to connect with your fiancee more. -I.e. instead of studying his ex, take that time to study him. Hopefully, he will in turn become even more curious about you too, and that may in due time lead to some very satisfying feelings for you both to know each other better than any one else on the planet. Seek intimacy within your relationship! Your marriage will eventually depend upon it. :)