It's me again (Original Poster). I don't really have much of an approach- I try to be myself. I'm pretty chill, but I've tried almost everything. I'm not comparing myself to a movie actor, I'm just saying that I have little trouble getting the sort of women I'm attracted to. I don't get nervous and lose my breath, nor do I get any less verbose. I man up and say "I think I'm developing feelings for you." I'm good friends with most of my crushes, so it's fairly easy to talk to them about it. The problem I have isn't my coming out about my feelings- or at least it wasn't. Now it is a small problem in that I've been shot down so many times that I'm more likely to just wait on them until they ask ME out because that seems to have a higher success rate. Is there anything wrong with that?
I've never had anyone say yes to me asking them out.
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It's me again (Original Poster). I don't really have much of an approach- I try to be myself. I'm pretty chill, but I've tried almost everything. I'm not comparing myself to a movie actor, I'm just saying that I have little trouble getting the sort of women I'm attracted to. I don't get nervous and lose my breath, nor do I get any less verbose. I man up and say "I think I'm developing feelings for you." I'm good friends with most of my crushes, so it's fairly easy to talk to them about it. The problem I have isn't my coming out about my feelings- or at least it wasn't. Now it is a small problem in that I've been shot down so many times that I'm more likely to just wait on them until they ask ME out because that seems to have a higher success rate. Is there anything wrong with that?