Ok first of all ignore the prudes and scare mongers. Then, calm down, what you are experiencing is quite normal and quite common in both genders. Your solutions are simple, there are 3- live the lie, tell her fine, I'm done. Create a double life complete with burner phones, a secret bank account, rendevous outside your local area, secret email not in anyway connected to your primary cell, your desktop computer, work computer or laptop. I had a tablet and a Tracfone hidden off property for just these kinds of shenanigans. Let me warn you though, it's a lot of work and you need to be on point all the time. Assuming you're not a total sociopath you're gonna get guilty and feel bad around her when she's sweet and loving to you or just does one of those cute things she does that made you fall in love with her in the first place. If somehow she gets suspicious and its because of something in your behavior or your answers to any questions she will be like a dog with a bone and she will catch you. Option 2, be a man and leave her, you only live once. Clearly you are a very horny bisexual man, she will never satisfy you. 3rd, just stop. Just stop doing it. Spend more time with your wife doing new things together and not just fucking the book club. Make an effort to cultivate gratitude for her, she actually sounds fairly cool to me. Clearly she loves you.
I've become a sexfreak and its destroying my marriage
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Ok first of all ignore the prudes and scare mongers. Then, calm down, what you are experiencing is quite normal and quite common in both genders. Your solutions are simple, there are 3- live the lie, tell her fine, I'm done. Create a double life complete with burner phones, a secret bank account, rendevous outside your local area, secret email not in anyway connected to your primary cell, your desktop computer, work computer or laptop. I had a tablet and a Tracfone hidden off property for just these kinds of shenanigans. Let me warn you though, it's a lot of work and you need to be on point all the time. Assuming you're not a total sociopath you're gonna get guilty and feel bad around her when she's sweet and loving to you or just does one of those cute things she does that made you fall in love with her in the first place. If somehow she gets suspicious and its because of something in your behavior or your answers to any questions she will be like a dog with a bone and she will catch you. Option 2, be a man and leave her, you only live once. Clearly you are a very horny bisexual man, she will never satisfy you. 3rd, just stop. Just stop doing it. Spend more time with your wife doing new things together and not just fucking the book club. Make an effort to cultivate gratitude for her, she actually sounds fairly cool to me. Clearly she loves you.