I used to fuck her.

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I ran into an old buddy of mine at a party. Haven't seen the guy for three years. I was feeling great about seeing him again until he brings me over to meet his new wife. Man, what a fucking bummer! I dated this woman about four years ago. I know that I should let the past be past, but seeing how happy my old buddy is with her and knowing what I know about his new wife's sexual shit (she's very oral: likes to give blow-jobs, and eat ass), I feel very bummed out being around the two of them. My buddy has invited me to his house next weekend. I'm all fucked up about this invite and I know that I shouldn't be. He is a really good guy. I'm feeling guilty. Normal? Should I tell him I used to date his wife? This woman gave a slight shake of her head to me when my buddy wasn't looking, telling me to not say that I knew her. And I wonder what's up with that? So what the fuck do I do in a situation like this? I see a good friend in for shit load of hurt. Would it be normal for me to fess up about my past with his wife or what? That shaking of her head she gave me bothers me.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    I don't see the big deal.
    Sure, it's a little awkward that you railed your mates wife years ago but that's all it should be. Awkward.

    The fact she sucks dick & eats ass.
    What does that have to do with anything?
    Sounds like your mate is lucky IMO...
    Unless that's something she would constantly do to random strangers I don't see how it's a problem &/or how it's any of your business

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    • atastychef
      9 years ago

      I agree with derpyderp.
      Unless she is cheating on your buddy, it's really none of your business. What she did before they got married is irrelevant. It's how she acts NOW that matters.
      Your worry is the fact that she likes/does oral. Duh, I should hope so!
      Honestly, my friend, it sounds like you're a little jealous. Seeing this girl triggered memories of some hot times, and now your friend is getting that and you'
      re not. The best thing you could do, in my opinion, is butt out!

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  • TheChakraMantra
    9 years ago

    Of course she doesn't want you to mention it -.- I doubt her husband wants to know that you two used to screw. Let go of the past and stop being so immature. So you used to have sex, so what? It doesn't mean anything now. Just be happy that your friend is happy, don't go making it all sour for him.

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  • eastbeast
    9 years ago

    Or just turn up naked and ask if a three-way is on the cards.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    No one wants to hear, "Hey, I used to bang your spouse!" from their friends.

    Not only that, but I'm sure that by now he knows her sexual preferences considering that they're married.

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    • eastbeast
      9 years ago

      Not only that, but the Husband might not want to know that she used to suck his cock and lick his arse if she doesn't do the same to the Husband.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Why would he be in a world of hurt just because you two used to have sex?

    I would suggest not telling him and keeping your distance from her incase old flames arise, then that would bring him pain. If you tell him that could mess with your relationship with him but if you don't say anything, don't be around her much unless he has invited you over to be with the two of them, then nothing bad should happen.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Mind your own business and keep your mouth shut. They are already married, so its not like anything you say would save him from making a mistake.

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  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    I would say let bygones be bygones, remember what you want, fact of the matter is she married your friend. Allow them their happiness. Everybody, everywhere in the World fucked somebody else before finding the one that they married, does this make it wrong? I think not, I chalk it up to experience!

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    9 years ago

    Put a comma in the sentence, and it's a whole different story.

    ''I used, to fuck her.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    In my opinion if you can put the past out of your mind and go visit your friend that would be the best. But if you can't do that, it would be better to tell him she's your ex rather than leave him in the dark about why you can't be around them.

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    You don't need trouble with your friend. If you do go to his house, pay attention to him not his now wife. I like the suggestion of meeting him separately from his wife if that works out. You know how to handle this. Think if you were in his shoes. (Stay away from her as a friend)

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  • deepthought33
    9 years ago

    Is there somehow something detrimental about her sexuality that makes you concerned?

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Their marriage is more important than your friendship. Don't go to his house. Meet him at a pub without the wife instead. Respect her head shake. Stay away.

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    • blacklady
      9 years ago

      my mother used to be a prostitute every night i lick the pus from her vagina

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