I turned down a three-way

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This is a simple one. I'm a guy. A close female friend of mine asked if I wanted to have a three-way with a female friend of her's. I said 'Nah, not really my thing. I like it one on one and intimate." ... She then attempted to make concessions, "Well, we can be intimate and personal about it..." to which I replied, "No, I mean, I have to have feelings for a girl to even get aroused for her. It's just not my cup of tea." and she finally relented, but not before questioning my sexuality.

Guys, is this normal, or would you have jumped at the chance to bag two fairly good looking women at once? Ladies, your input is more than welcome as well.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Good for you, man! I support you wholeheartedly. It was completely inappropriate and disrespectful of her to question your sexuality. That stupid girl probably said that shit, because she couldn't handle rejection, and her ego got bruised. Some women can get downright nasty when they get turned down, but they expect men to not do the same. My philosophy is people shouldn't hit on anyone if they can't handle rejection gracefully. You deserve so much better!

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    • Walterbasherdinger
      8 years ago

      Haha, I didn't anticipate this one to turn into such a laugh factory. It was a nice let-down, and when she asked me if I was gay I just laughed and tried to explain Demisexuality to her. I've never been attracted to a man, never had sex with one, end of question, I told her. I'm sure on some level the rejection bothered her, but it's not like we're not still friends. Sooo for everyone in the comments saying she must be a bitch, sorry that's my bad for wording it the way I did. She's actually pretty cool.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Well, that's good to know.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago | pl

    It's normal for you to turn it down, and it's just as normal for her to question that because your reaction is very uncommon for a guy. I'm a guy and threesomes aren't my cuppa either.

    I'm almost certain an encounter for me would turn out disastrous because, given how my brain works, I will be hyper-focused on and attracted to just one of the girls, which would probably make the other feel like shit lol. Don't second guess yourself, you made the right call based on who you are.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    I think it all depends if you are sexually attracted to the 2 women involved.
    If there's a high level of attraction, it would be hard to say no to that (for me anyway).

    If you are not attracted to them, then saying 'No' is a no brainer.

    Your sexual orientation should not come into question.

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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago

    A three ways not for me either. I can barely satisfy one woman let alone two \:

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Good job...decent done of you.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa
    8 years ago

    I turned one down too. It just seemed like too much to handle. Maybe one day I'll do it, but not in the near future. She shouldn't have questioned your sexuality just because you didn't want a three-way

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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago

    I am pretty sure I wouldn't take up 2 of my guy friends on a 3 way either. Friends should stay in the friends category for me.

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  • Caps90
    8 years ago

    I think it's perfectly normal and smart of you. It having a three way isn't your thing then why should you do it.

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  • ivanka7242
    8 years ago

    I believe it is a personal choice, and you made the choice that was best for you personally. Congrats!

    Having said that, having a threesome is a very popular fantasy for both men and women.
    Many other men would of take her up on the offer as well, and that is fine too.

    To me, it's a personal choice, and this is a situation where we should not judge one way or the other.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    What a waste of oxygen fucking imbecile.As man its ur duty to satisfy as many women as you can.I feel for the poor girl.Dont lie ur a fucking fairy arent u.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Some "friend" she is .-.

    Was she drunk or something or just a bitch?

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  • RoyRogers
    8 years ago

    If your not into it you are simply not into it. Trust me doing it when you dont feel like it just makes you feel scummy.

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  • reality1984
    8 years ago

    Good For you.

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    I never would I love all kinds of org ies

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  • Walterbasherdinger
    8 years ago

    IIN that I'm pleased by the fact that I posted a very simple IIN and the comments section became so entertaining that it actually made my day when I checked them?

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  • poorbaby
    8 years ago

    I don't think there is anything wrong with your decision. But I am curious about your claim that you can not become aroused unless you have feelings. For that to be true, it would have to follow that you never masturbate, unless of course you have feelings for your hand.

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    • anti-hero
      8 years ago

      Your other accounts follow people around and say the same thing over and over again.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Of course a 3 way with 2 girls wouldn't appeal to a gay guy. What's so surprising about that?

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    • Walterbasherdinger
      8 years ago | pl

      I remember you well, gypsy. Still lurking around here, I see. Well, just like the last time I posted an IIN regarding sex, you've made an ass of yourself. Seriously think about channeling your time and thoughts to a more... productive use. Have a nice day!

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    • derpyderp
      8 years ago

      Typical douche reply.
      "Every man better want to fuck every girl that offers or can be tricked into it or he's a gay pussy"
      Fuck you're an idiot. Look at yourself...

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      • NeofelisNebulosa
        8 years ago

        I'm making popcorn to watch the ensuing argument....

        Did you see his comment on the penis size story? He said 6.5 inches was tiny.

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        • derpyderp
          8 years ago

          Ah, I've no time for the old cunt.
          He's living in fantasy land & it's actually a bit sad.

          & yes, i saw the tiny penis comment. LOL
          Fantasy land.....

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            And you. No point in considering what you've got between your legs, since you can't even provide for your woman.
            "We're partners, a team", your euphemism for not bringing home enough bacon, I assume.
            As for a partnership and being part of a team, you've haven't got a clue. Sailing a boat the size of a 40 foot container (volume wise) across an ocean takes real team work and is a partnership in which one must rely on their partner, not for one's livelihood, but for their very lives.
            You are a pathetic person.

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        • thegypsysailor
          8 years ago

          You all are about as sharp as a fucking round stone, you know that?
          99 times out of a hundred when some insecure child questions the size of his dick, my reply is that it isn't the size of the tool, but the skill of the craftsman.
          So when I post that, you all are as silent as church mice, but let me make a silly ass comment like this one and you fucking IDIOTS jump ALL FUCKING over me.
          Know what? I DON'T GIVE 2 SHITS WHAT ANY OF YOU AUSSIE PRICKS SAY OR THINK. You are all just full of hate.
          Choke on it, assholes.

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          • NeofelisNebulosa
            8 years ago | pl

            I'm not Australian

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            • charli.m
              8 years ago | pl

              But he's never wrong...

              Welcome to Australia, I guess :P

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            • thegypsysailor
              8 years ago

              No, of course you aren't. But it seems you respect and admire the Aussie mafia a great deal.

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