I treat women like shit because of what they did to me. am i a bad person?

As a gay man they annoy the shit out of me. All of them, besides my female family, when I'm with other girls I insult them on been fat, ugly and stupid.When they diet I make sure to eat food they like in front of them.the list is endless. They hate me after a few weeks and piss off. So I go and find more girls to befriend and continue the cycle. A girl stole my birthday boyfriend that I loved, so I don't trust women. I do everything to undermine and impress them. Is this normal? I loved the guy, she stole him from me. Didn't know he was big. He hid it fro me. Advice needed.

Is It Normal?
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  • No you don’t. You’re just another pantywaist posting his revenge fantasies / attention seeking. No one even notices you in reality.

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  • You can't steal a person. He obviously just wanted her more. It's normal to be an asshole to that chick but not all women in general.

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  • Oh step mother troll is branching out.

    Fascinating.

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  • Seek therapy please. You are being jealous and vindictive. Straight women should not be your adversaries, and straight men should not be your prey.

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  • Did the girl stole your birthday boyfriend OR your boyfriend was already interested in her from past some days ???
    How can you Blame the girl ?

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  • So you are saying that being gay is a actually a choice. That the other guy was gay but then chose to be heterosexual because of a girl? Interesting. Perhaps the truth is that you just cured him of being gay. By the way, just what is a "birthday boyfriend"? Is that something like a "friend with benefits" but only on your birthday? It really sounds more like he was never gay, in the first place, and you are just pissed that you couldn't make him that way.

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    • Hey fun fact we live in a time period were the term bisexuality exists. I suggest looking it up

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      • I wasn't sure if OP's "didn't know he was big" was a typo for bi, or a reference to his c0ck? So i could see Jeth's confusion since Bisexuality is not really mentioned in this fanfic.

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      • Don't try to justify what YOU are by imprinting your proclivities into every situation just to suit you. Incidentally, if the other guy was bi, why hide it? That, then, would make him gay not bi. On another note, since you appear to be the OP, just what is a "birthday boyfriend"? I did try to look that one up and there seems to be bupkis.

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        • Yea I'm straight and not the op, I guess i do have a curiosity for women but it's so beyond small that I wouldn't consider it curious. I like men plain and simple. And yea birthday boyfriend best I can reccond is they got together on a bday. Other than that no clue. Sone stupid term kids use these days im sure

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  • You don't have the balls to do any of the stuff you've said here.

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  • Vindictiveness is a disease
    So clean up your act, yes please

    The rot in your soul
    Could spread and devour whole

    Your behavior repeal
    Your wounds heal
    It'll be amazing how much better you'll feel

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  • This isn't about women, it's about you, and your desire to not see your ex boyfriend as a bisexual man who kept a secret from you, and betrayed your trust. You are most likely in denial about what kind of person he was. Sure the woman he left you for probably wasn't a very nice person either, but she doesn't represent all the other women on the planet, just like your ex boyfriend doesn't represent all the bisexual men in the world.

    What you're really doing is just living in the past, also you probably aren't really hurting anyone, but yourself. Eventually these women you try to act out against just detach themselves from you, and move on with their lives. I think you need to get over whatever desire you have to see your ex as this wonderful person in your memory, it's not like this woman kidnapped him, and raped him. I hate to break it to you, but your ex boyfriend wasn't some helpless, little, woodland creature. It takes two to tango!

    When you accept the truth you will be able to better heal the hurt inside of yourself, and move on with your life. Right now it looks like you are just reliving the past in your head everyday.

    Why don't you write two letters, one to your ex, and one to the woman for whom he left you. Write down all of feelings of anger, hurt and betrayal. Pray for God to remove this resentment that is now controlling your life, then burn the letters, and bury the ashes?

    I bet you will feel better, like a weight has been lifted from your heart if you try my suggestion.

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