I torture myself with cuddles

I’m very sensitive and absolutely obsessed with hugs and cuddles. Whenever I don’t get someone at least hugging me or petting my head once a day I get extremely sad and angry. Sometimes I’ll deliberately keep myself from getting hugs just to torture or punish myself. It hurts a lot but it’s strangely addicting, like I get pleasure out of being sadistic towards myself. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Wow. You can be addicted to cuddles. You learn something new every day.

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  • You really need a dog!

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  • I’m soft

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  • Too much of anything is no good... not normal but at least its not physically harmful like cutting or something.

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  • I actually don’t like cuddles. They sound nice but once it’s happening I can’t get comfortable and I start sweating so I have to stop.

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  • You shouldnt need cuddles and hugs to be okay in life.

    Sounds like an addiction maybe.

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    • I can’t live without cuddles! I get extremely depressed without them and start losing it if no one loves me.

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      • Yea that doesnt sound good :/

        You have to try to slowly wean yourself off them

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        • Is it a bad thing though?

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          • A person can be addicted to anything.

            It's not good to be addicted.

            If you think you really are addicted, then thats not good.

            If you feel like you cant live without cuddles, and it makes you depressed, then it definitely sounds like addiction.

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          • I told myself, if I ever became dependent on my soft plushie animal, I would take him outside and shoot him in the face.

            Tough love, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

            In your case though, I would just tell myself that I dont need cuddles

            You have to force yourself to stop

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  • if you are a:
    girl- u're a little too sensitive, it seems. but still normal.
    guy- time to come out of the closet. XD

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