I took him back but now it feels like he doesnt want me. iin?

Ok so my boyfriend and I had this huge argument 2 weeks ago. I felt like he kept giving his friends too much attention and never enough to me. He completely ditched me to go with his friends. After I tried to tell him how it made me feel, he told me hed call me tomorow. ooh! that irritated me. I dont like going to sleep mad. I went over to his house it was 3:30 am and began to argue with him. He was so mad he broke up with me and ignored me for 2 weeks. Eventually we got back togeher. It hasnt been a month and hes already distant. It just isnt the same. I love him but it feels like he doesnt wanna be with me eventhough he asked me to take him back? Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Drop him. Find someone who treasures you.

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  • Bbbaaahhhhhhhh.

    Feckin cry babies in here.

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  • Um well she said she couldn't sleep when she's mad.. So going to his house was probably the best choice to do to try to resolve this.. I think it's time to say bye to your bf.

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  • Who in the hell shows up at someones house at 3:30AM to argue? Seems like you're the one with the problem, not him.

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  • I feel bad bc my bf used to be like this and I'm the same way as u. I don't like to go to sleep mad and I want to resolve things. Anyway u should probably get a new bf cause they never change... I made that mistake... And now I'm stuck in a bad relationship.

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  • No It's not normal and I'm pretty sure your relationship is doomed for failure.

    Ladies, here's a tip... If a guy acts like he's not interested in you, guess what? He's not! Leave and find someone who actually cares about you and is willing to put in the massive amount of work that being in a relationship requires.

    Also, never go to a dude's house at 330am to aruge with him... in my (and most other men's) book, that's grounds for immediate "get the fuck out, we're done".

    Just sayin'...

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  • Eva, what a Stupid comment!!
    If he is treating u that way I suggest u take another break and find someone more attentive who will put u first. Good luck

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  • ^il I lol'd.

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