I told a girl that i fapped about her. what to do now?

I recently told a girl that I masturbated about her. I dont know y i did it. She responded "y?" with an angry smilie. I responded that i just did it in the moment. She said" go to hell". I tried covering ip saying that i was joking. But looks like she still hasnt seen my messages. I really dont know what to do. I always knew she was a lil conservative type. I know i shouldnt have said it. How do i cover up?

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  • She has every right to feel awkward about it though I don't personally find it disgusting. Depending on exactly how it was said though. Just apologize but don't send her desperate messages. Let her know you regret doing it and you understand why it was awkward and just move on. Now next time keep the masturbating material in your head unless asked for it ! Lol

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    • I just said i was joking about it. She sae my msgs but isnt responding. Then i sent some other topic msgs as if it wasnt a big deal. She is seeing but not responding.

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      • Well, then that's all you can do really. Just try to learn from your experience.

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  • Oh and I hate the word fapped - who the fuck came up with that one? It sounds like some sort of retarded wank

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  • Well, there's a lesson learned. That's what you get for being a jackass. What the hell did you think she was gonna do? She had every right to be disgusted. There's nothing you can do except to not ever harass another girl you hardly know with that kinda over sharing. I can't feel sorry for you.

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    • Rose Isabella is right. Fapping about a girl is completely normal. But, telling her about it afterwards is creepy. Now, if a girl told me that she did that, I would thank her for her admiration, because I'm a creep. Most girls are not creeps and feel uncomfortable by creepy behavior.

      Next time you have a wet dream about a girl and see here the next day, simply say, "Hi."

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      • agreed theres nothing wrong with it. its a normal thought but perhaps it shouldn't have been said the best thing to do is pretend it didn't happen and continue to talk to her as a friend. if a girl told me she masturbated to me, i wouldn't get angry i'd ask to smell her hand.

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      • There is another friend of mine, a girl. I told her the same thing before. And she said, " really? U think that i am so hot?" and she took it positively and not like a big deal

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        • Well, there you go. She is the one for you. Try to be friends with her. She is well worth the effort.

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        • Yeah, she was probably into that guy already, and had low self esteem, but the there's no guarantee how the average, random person will react.

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    • I flick my nipples to your feline

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      • Cats are pretty sexy, but I don't think they care about anyone's nipples, because they're superior to us all of course.

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    • he was just saying whats on his mind, its totally normal. it was by no means harassment as he had no ill intentions. I think the girl has some growing up to do. she was just overacting to a cute little comment, if i were her i'd be flattered.

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  • Move on.

    Masturbating is normal, so don't feel ashamed. However, were you sharing that bit of awkward information for the sake of sharing, or were you sort of hoping for something?

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    • I was hoping like she wud say," oh really, am i so hot?" or something and would lead somewhere

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      • Nah. That only works on women comfortable with the idea of hooking up spontaneously. Or if she told you that she likes you or is sexually attracted to you first; otherwise she'll think you're creepy or some shit.

        Next time, just see where her feelings are for you, if she likes you, then you can be as awkward as you want.

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  • Flip the script. Apologize for being a man then ask ...l when she , to not think of you!
    Women are not sugar and spice

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  • learn from your mistakes, that's what you should do.

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  • well umm i dunno really, I'm not a female so its difficult to say. There have to be girls out there that would be flattered and others not so much.
    Its funny, situations reversed, how many guys would actually get pissed off at news like that, au contraire, they'd think all their birthdays arrived at once.
    Ah the fickle little differences between males and their sub-species.

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  • I told a friend this once and she was flattered. So don't listen to the people saying you're an inappropriate creep or a jerk. You just happened to judge poorly how this particular girl would respond. We all let bigmouth strike again sometimes, it's no big deal.
    But, she's clearly a boring prude, so just ignore her reaction. Who cares. Go back to fapping.

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  • You are a fucking idiot saying that to a girl !!
    You could have told her she was very pretty and hot. W/O
    saying something offend. to her.

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  • Very true, a person could get into trouble for sexual harassment.

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  • I'm not sure how to handle this since I don't know either of you. But I suggest you practice your reading of other people skills.

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  • Just stick to the story that you were joking. If she challenges you just tell her in person (next tiem you see her) that it was a joke and say something like, 'Why would I masturbate over you? you're not even my type"

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    • So basically your solution is for him to insult her, because he acted like a stupid verbal exhibitionist? OP just needs to say he was sorry for being inappropriate with her, and leave it at that. It's not this chick's fault that was gross and over shared!

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      • Yep. The guy wants solutions to get himself out of a stupid mess, that's my attempt at solving his little problem. It might even help him turn this situation around into something positive. My experience is women ALWAYS respond to the unexpected or reverse psychology.

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      • Ok ok fine i get it. But i ssaid i was joking. And ineed to stick to that story

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    • Ok i wud say that, but i am thinking of saying i dont even fap. Coz knowing her, she wud get grossed out even if she knows i masturbate. Thats stupid right? So conservative.

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      • Well, then she's probably not the girl for you. By any chance were you intoxicated when all of this went down? I dunno why you told her, but sounds like you don't know either. Sometimes people just blurt stuff out, but now you know better.

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        • Yeah i agree with you. She's not my type.and i still dont understand y i told her. Silly me. We cant do anything now. I said i was joking, she's gotta accept that. Actually, i ll just make other friends. Some better ones hopefully. A lil more open minded maybe?

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          • Well, I dunno what it is that compels us to sometimes over share. I always feel compelled to tell someone if I have a dream and he or she is in it, but I was told it wasn't a normal thing to share. I'm honestly glad I consulted with this friend/coworker before I over shared, because the dream was about the program director a.k.a. my boss.

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  • You started off bad ended terribly. You shoulda tried to fix your mistske by saying that her beauty just turns you on to much for you to resist, now youd half to say that in a kind caring way while looking deeply into her eyes otherwise well its to late anyways, stop thinking with your dick mate

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  • I don't see why people get so worked up over such statements. Last time someone said that to me I took it as a compliment and moved on.

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  • Never mid, that's gross , I'm a guy, so I'm yucky. Women don't poo, let's keep it that way

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