I think women can sometimes be narcissistic about their infedelity

I'm not trying to bash women here, but I have noticed that many women tend to justify their actions and blame the man for their fidelity. I keep hearing justifications from women like "he was always at work" or "he doesn't try to understand my feelings" and bs like that. When men cheat, they lie like he'll at first, but when they realise they are caught, they own up and blame themselves.

So often in my life, I see women do this. Women, at least in the USA, are more likely to cheat than men, albeit by a small margin, but they all seem to have some lame excuse that makes it sound like the man's fault.

My own mother cheated on my dad when I was an adolescent. It caused a divorce and he lost custody of his three children other than 2 weeks each summer. To this day she claims it was his fault, for not paying enough attention to her and always being away. She didn't complain a bit, however, about us living in a home she could never afford without him, or the fact that her kids wore nice clothes and we never had to worry about bills being paid, or a car breaking down with no way to fix it. I knew families in school that did. Their dads were home all the time.

Again, I'm not trying to bash, but this is what I've seen in my life. Many, but not all women are taught to believe they are entitled and believe that they have a right to justify their adulterous actions. People who commit adultery are scrum no,matter what their sex. No justification can justify.

My first love did this. I'm working around the country and come home to find she was seeing a schoolmate of mine. She blamed it on the fact that I was never there. She wasn't complaining when I bought her two daughters Christmas presents and kept a roof over her head while her deadbeat 38 year old ex ( she and I were 23) was serving time for tax evasion.