I agree with a lot of what you've said here. It is often men who want someone who is seemingly out of their league. But I think this is partly due to men and women seeing leagues differently - it's fine for a beautiful woman to go out with a short fat ugly dude as long as he's got a high power job and a lot of money. That makes him a catch. Conversely the men will judge the woman purely on her physical attractiveness. That sets her league and there's not much she could achieve in life to change it.
It's not everyone of course, but seems to be the majority.
I think the term "there’s someone for everyone" is a lie
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I agree with a lot of what you've said here. It is often men who want someone who is seemingly out of their league. But I think this is partly due to men and women seeing leagues differently - it's fine for a beautiful woman to go out with a short fat ugly dude as long as he's got a high power job and a lot of money. That makes him a catch. Conversely the men will judge the woman purely on her physical attractiveness. That sets her league and there's not much she could achieve in life to change it.
It's not everyone of course, but seems to be the majority.