I think of my boyfriends best friend when we have sex

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Sometimes when me and my boyfriend have sex, I automatically just think of his best friend, it's not like I don't love my boyfriend. It just happens out of nowhere, and I have met his best friend once in my life and I don't really find him that attractive. It's really annoying, and I wonder if there is someone else out there who've also experienced something like this?

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  • BlackyHancock
    8 years ago | pl

    I've had similar things happen. For some reason during sex when I was coming, I used to see an image of my boss from years ago, I'm straight and he was a bearded guy 20 years older than me. Go figure.

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  • derpyderp
    8 years ago | pl

    NEVER let that slip to him

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  • MR.mr
    8 years ago | pl

    just don't tell him

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago | pl

    Might be an intrusive thought.

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  • YouWillNeverKnow
    5 years ago | pl

    It sounds to me like it's not your fault and you don't do it purposely so you've done nothing wrong.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    As long as you don't act on it.

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  • johnvericson
    8 years ago | pl

    that never helps me haha ive tried thinking of other people before, it ruins it

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  • dick555
    8 years ago | pl

    It does matter how long you have been with someone, you can think of a hot person. Enjoy the moment and live life to fullest.

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