I think new-wave feminists are a hindrance to dating
Controversial opinion here:
As a guy, I think dating women is difficult anyway. You have to be the one to tell a girl you're interested in her physical appearance before a date is even on the cards, she decides if you're genuine or a creep, you need to keep her entertained, make her laugh, and pass all her "tests".
Women see attraction as a mental thing, so you have to get into her head and push her buttons/find out about what she likes and dislikes.
I have no idea at the best of times when approaching women, with regards to where the line is between "genuine" and "creepy". Going up and offering to by her a drink in a bar seems too corny and obvious, and standing back and not saying anything but frequently looking over is unlikely to work either.
I think new-wave feminism (or for want of a better phrase, new-wave feminist "mentality") has made this situation even harder than it needs to be.
Is it normal?