Okay, first off, is he married to your mother? If this guy is not married to your mother he's not your stepfather, period, end of story.
Secondly, regardless of whether or not you are okay with it it's less than appropriate for him to be borrowing money from you. If he's old enough to be dating your mother he's old enough to have his own damn money. You might be a legal adult, but it's still kinda sketchy. Has he paid you back yet? Make sure he pays you back.
Thirdly it's completely inappropriate for him to be oogling you and making comments on how short your shorts are, and whether or not you are wearing a bra! I'm relatively sure from what you have shared in your post that he's most likely attracted to you which is completely in appropriate, and very disrespectful of your mother. If I were you I would personally chose to wear longer shorts, not go braless, spend much less alone time with this guy, and certainly refrain from loaning him money.
Honestly, he sounds like a scumbag. Sorry, but Rosie gotta keep it at 100!😎
I think the ball is in the OP's court. She sounds aloof, and also has a delicate maneuver to make. If she punches this guy, she is being disrespectful to her Mother. Social savvy beyond her abilities is called for. Herein is the problem space for advice that would help her. So suppress your aggressive tendencies, and tell all of us how to tell a creep to back off in a way that he will shrug off the next morning. We know you can do it; you reject creeps with class and grace here at IIN all the time.
someones got some sand up her disgusting feminist vagina... cough Rosie... he is just a regular guy. He did nothing inappropriate and is happy to have someone who cares about him in his life. I wouldn't worry, most guys are awkward like this.
Hey asshole, you're taking this way too personal. Going out with someone, and having the hots for their daughter, or son is a scummy way to be. If my comments hurt or offend you then you probably need to change yourself, try to improve your character, and you won't be such a loser with such an awful personality.
I know, but I just couldn't resist, because I really hate guys like OP's mother's boyfriend so much.
It's gross, and disgusting enough when men are sexually interested in girls that are young enough to be their daughters, but when they are practically related, or a guy gets the hots for his girlfriend's daughter it's particularly vile and repugnant.
Also what's up with people these days referring to someone as a stepfather, stepdaughter or stepstep-whatever when there's no actual relation by marriage. People are way too casual with labels these days in my not so humble opinion.
The best thing that could happen to OP would be if her mom and that guy were to breakup.
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Okay, first off, is he married to your mother? If this guy is not married to your mother he's not your stepfather, period, end of story.
Secondly, regardless of whether or not you are okay with it it's less than appropriate for him to be borrowing money from you. If he's old enough to be dating your mother he's old enough to have his own damn money. You might be a legal adult, but it's still kinda sketchy. Has he paid you back yet? Make sure he pays you back.
Thirdly it's completely inappropriate for him to be oogling you and making comments on how short your shorts are, and whether or not you are wearing a bra! I'm relatively sure from what you have shared in your post that he's most likely attracted to you which is completely in appropriate, and very disrespectful of your mother. If I were you I would personally chose to wear longer shorts, not go braless, spend much less alone time with this guy, and certainly refrain from loaning him money.
Honestly, he sounds like a scumbag. Sorry, but Rosie gotta keep it at 100!😎
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I think the ball is in the OP's court. She sounds aloof, and also has a delicate maneuver to make. If she punches this guy, she is being disrespectful to her Mother. Social savvy beyond her abilities is called for. Herein is the problem space for advice that would help her. So suppress your aggressive tendencies, and tell all of us how to tell a creep to back off in a way that he will shrug off the next morning. We know you can do it; you reject creeps with class and grace here at IIN all the time.
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someones got some sand up her disgusting feminist vagina... cough Rosie... he is just a regular guy. He did nothing inappropriate and is happy to have someone who cares about him in his life. I wouldn't worry, most guys are awkward like this.
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Hey asshole, you're taking this way too personal. Going out with someone, and having the hots for their daughter, or son is a scummy way to be. If my comments hurt or offend you then you probably need to change yourself, try to improve your character, and you won't be such a loser with such an awful personality.
He's not married to her but they're engaged and getting married.
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Well, hopefully something will happen, and they won't get married, because that dirtbag is bad news.
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😂 He sounds like a winner to me!!
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Winner of the bullet to head lottery in my mind. 😎
He's a piece of shit! 💩
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Sarcasm my dear.
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I know, but I just couldn't resist, because I really hate guys like OP's mother's boyfriend so much.
It's gross, and disgusting enough when men are sexually interested in girls that are young enough to be their daughters, but when they are practically related, or a guy gets the hots for his girlfriend's daughter it's particularly vile and repugnant.
Also what's up with people these days referring to someone as a stepfather, stepdaughter or stepstep-whatever when there's no actual relation by marriage. People are way too casual with labels these days in my not so humble opinion.
The best thing that could happen to OP would be if her mom and that guy were to breakup.