Wow, that was alot to read... Don't listen to some comments, they just want to be cruel. From what you said, i believe your mum is sick... I think she is sick of having you and your daughter at her house, THAT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, I can't stand having people in my house, Have you been there long??? And about getting a job, I am guessing you don't have or trust anyone to babysit? And childcare pretty much wastes all that money you earn working! You need to get on your feet before you sort out a job!!! I think you should tell your mum you are going on a holiday and go stay with someone else? If you can, just for a week or two? It sounds like your mum needs her home back? with me, if someone comes in my house and doesn't put things back where they pick them up from, I get frustrated, I can't stand visitors for too long!!! Your mum sounds like me, I bet she complains a lot??? After the 2 weeks, hopefully your mum will have calmed down, ask her if she wants you and your daughter to come back and she should say yes, tell her you have been thinking of moving so she isn't so stressed, cause it seems like any little thing you do, will probably anger her? I think it is wrong for your mum to take your stuff, do you pay rent? Maybe she expects more from you... I hope everything is working out with you, I will check in every now and then... I really feel for you, and your daughter, I hope she can be potty trained soon so nappies don't take up your budget?.. I found, by moving my daughter from her bed in the middle of the night to the potty/toilet, she would just go automatically and wouldn't wet her night nappy. It was so helpful... Hope everything works out, will keep checking... Keep smiling no matter what, sounds like your daughter has a great mum:)
I have been here for over 7 months now.
and i put everything away back after i use it(ex dishes)
anything and everything i do is wrong in my parent's eyes no matter what -it doesn't matter if i am sitting there with my daughter in the kitchen or living room feeding her food i made from scratch(homemade meals) my mom will always complain and scream about every damn thing. she does it to my older brother too. he lives in SF and comes home every Thursday through Sunday. he is 26 yrs old i am 25 yrs old.
he is single,independent, no gf, no kids of his own. this is my brother's house i live in. not my parent's house. my brother is the one who bought the house, and pays for it. my dad pays a small little fortune of it so it is semi his house to, but my brother is the one that REALLY pays for it and HIS name is the one ON the house!
and because my brother does not stand up to our dad and he is never around to begin with my dad runs the house. I got really angry with my brother and told him why don't you stand up for me? go yell at dad tell him this is YOUR house! tell him i can have my dog and my cat home with us! tell him to stop acting like i have to check in every damn 5 mns whenever i go anywhere!! and tell him to stop treating me a like i am his maid!!!
my mom she just screams about everything and she tries to pull the (what r u doing you said you'd be home at 6:30) when in reality i never said what time i would be home just that i would be home after i ran an errand.
she always tries to put words in my mouth,in my sister's and my brother's mouth too. thats why noone lives here except me and my daughter.
my x is being really weird right now. he says he is going to go out of country for 3 months but he needs me to get involved in something and i told him from the START NO WHAT EVER YOU ARE PLANNIMNG OR HAVE PLANNED TO MAKE MONEY I WILL NEVER GET INVOLVED BECAUSE ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES YOU IS A BAD IDEA!!
but i plan on filing for sole custody as soon as he leaves the country.whenever that will be i will find out on satruday(tmrw)
he is trying to make me fall into a trap so he can get me back and control me again. he says i have an apt for you and u don't have to pay rent for 3 months etc. and i told him FK NO I WILL NOT MOVE ANYWHERE OR DO ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES YOU!!! I WANT YOU OUT OF MY LIFE!!!
and he said i will be i won't bother you. and i said i don't care how much you tell me you won't I WILL NOT MOVE UNLESS I HAVE THE MONEY SAVED UP BY MYSELF AND I FIND AN APRTMENTW OUT YOU!
I think my mom is sick
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Wow, that was alot to read... Don't listen to some comments, they just want to be cruel. From what you said, i believe your mum is sick... I think she is sick of having you and your daughter at her house, THAT'S NOT YOUR FAULT, I can't stand having people in my house, Have you been there long??? And about getting a job, I am guessing you don't have or trust anyone to babysit? And childcare pretty much wastes all that money you earn working! You need to get on your feet before you sort out a job!!! I think you should tell your mum you are going on a holiday and go stay with someone else? If you can, just for a week or two? It sounds like your mum needs her home back? with me, if someone comes in my house and doesn't put things back where they pick them up from, I get frustrated, I can't stand visitors for too long!!! Your mum sounds like me, I bet she complains a lot??? After the 2 weeks, hopefully your mum will have calmed down, ask her if she wants you and your daughter to come back and she should say yes, tell her you have been thinking of moving so she isn't so stressed, cause it seems like any little thing you do, will probably anger her? I think it is wrong for your mum to take your stuff, do you pay rent? Maybe she expects more from you... I hope everything is working out with you, I will check in every now and then... I really feel for you, and your daughter, I hope she can be potty trained soon so nappies don't take up your budget?.. I found, by moving my daughter from her bed in the middle of the night to the potty/toilet, she would just go automatically and wouldn't wet her night nappy. It was so helpful... Hope everything works out, will keep checking... Keep smiling no matter what, sounds like your daughter has a great mum:)
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I have been here for over 7 months now.
and i put everything away back after i use it(ex dishes)
anything and everything i do is wrong in my parent's eyes no matter what -it doesn't matter if i am sitting there with my daughter in the kitchen or living room feeding her food i made from scratch(homemade meals) my mom will always complain and scream about every damn thing. she does it to my older brother too. he lives in SF and comes home every Thursday through Sunday. he is 26 yrs old i am 25 yrs old.
he is single,independent, no gf, no kids of his own. this is my brother's house i live in. not my parent's house. my brother is the one who bought the house, and pays for it. my dad pays a small little fortune of it so it is semi his house to, but my brother is the one that REALLY pays for it and HIS name is the one ON the house!
and because my brother does not stand up to our dad and he is never around to begin with my dad runs the house. I got really angry with my brother and told him why don't you stand up for me? go yell at dad tell him this is YOUR house! tell him i can have my dog and my cat home with us! tell him to stop acting like i have to check in every damn 5 mns whenever i go anywhere!! and tell him to stop treating me a like i am his maid!!!
my mom she just screams about everything and she tries to pull the (what r u doing you said you'd be home at 6:30) when in reality i never said what time i would be home just that i would be home after i ran an errand.
she always tries to put words in my mouth,in my sister's and my brother's mouth too. thats why noone lives here except me and my daughter.
my x is being really weird right now. he says he is going to go out of country for 3 months but he needs me to get involved in something and i told him from the START NO WHAT EVER YOU ARE PLANNIMNG OR HAVE PLANNED TO MAKE MONEY I WILL NEVER GET INVOLVED BECAUSE ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES YOU IS A BAD IDEA!!
but i plan on filing for sole custody as soon as he leaves the country.whenever that will be i will find out on satruday(tmrw)
he is trying to make me fall into a trap so he can get me back and control me again. he says i have an apt for you and u don't have to pay rent for 3 months etc. and i told him FK NO I WILL NOT MOVE ANYWHERE OR DO ANYTHING THAT INVOLVES YOU!!! I WANT YOU OUT OF MY LIFE!!!
and he said i will be i won't bother you. and i said i don't care how much you tell me you won't I WILL NOT MOVE UNLESS I HAVE THE MONEY SAVED UP BY MYSELF AND I FIND AN APRTMENTW OUT YOU!
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last sentence -Without you**(correction)