i am thinking about moving in with a friend next year but in la. not 100% sure yet but if my friend gets his job back and gets his condo by Jan and i go to visit in Jan and see that he has a condo, then i will move. But no arrangements will be made until i see that he has everything situated and that i see physically that he has a good job to provide a roof over my and my daughter's head.i would find work there 3 days a week and he has a child too-older than my daughter. and he would watch my daughter with his son every weekend so i could work at least 3 days of the week. if he gets this job back that he is trying to get, he will be well off. and with me working we will be able to easily buy a house within a year or two.
i'm hoping everything will go smoothly, so i can get the f out of my parent's house and outside of SJ. by next year if i do move, my parent's if i tell them they will blow up at me for wanting to move in with a friend. so i am going to have to send all my things there in advance(after i see that he has the condo of course and the job)
fkn ridiculous though. my parents will scream at me tell me "you are fkn psycho and sick to want to move and you can't make it." etc you need us, blah blah and put me down some more. so once again i am going to have to pack my bags and send it there to the new home i would be living in, then i will just take a plane there and my friend will pick me up.
even if i decided to move in w a gf they would still be the same way. they flipped at me when i rented a room in a house when i was 18. then again when i was 20, then again when i was 23. they still will be the same way no matter what because they firmly believe i can never make it on my own. so they continue to put me down.
and i will just have to break the news to them after the fact that i have moved. because thats just how they are. and when i do tell them after i have moved, my dad will say again the same thing as he always says to me "you have no respect or consideration for me or my feelings. To just move with out consulting me is so disrespectful." then i will tell him the same thing i have always told him that he is psycho and he needs to get help for his anger issues and how he needs to let me grow the fuck up and have my own damn life for once.
my mom freaking out will be an easy one to fix because she is more understanding than my dad is. but yet at the same time she is a jerk because she doesn't help me with anything what so ever. she just bitches and screams at me.
i can't even let her babysit not once, because she will put 3 layers of shirts on my daughter when it is 90 degrees outside. my daughter has had a temperature before because of this. (heat damage to her body) i had to take her to er.
she was over heated and light headed. i screamed at her. she still continues to be the same way. so all in all. i have to move with out them both not knowing i am moving.
i told my older brother about it. and he was like cool about it. he was just like how you gonna move tho? and i was like"Ah i dno i will figure something out" he was just like the same as he has always been growing up telling me you need to get the f out of there away from mom and dad.
I think my mom is sick
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i am thinking about moving in with a friend next year but in la. not 100% sure yet but if my friend gets his job back and gets his condo by Jan and i go to visit in Jan and see that he has a condo, then i will move. But no arrangements will be made until i see that he has everything situated and that i see physically that he has a good job to provide a roof over my and my daughter's head.i would find work there 3 days a week and he has a child too-older than my daughter. and he would watch my daughter with his son every weekend so i could work at least 3 days of the week. if he gets this job back that he is trying to get, he will be well off. and with me working we will be able to easily buy a house within a year or two.
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i'm hoping everything will go smoothly, so i can get the f out of my parent's house and outside of SJ. by next year if i do move, my parent's if i tell them they will blow up at me for wanting to move in with a friend. so i am going to have to send all my things there in advance(after i see that he has the condo of course and the job)
fkn ridiculous though. my parents will scream at me tell me "you are fkn psycho and sick to want to move and you can't make it." etc you need us, blah blah and put me down some more. so once again i am going to have to pack my bags and send it there to the new home i would be living in, then i will just take a plane there and my friend will pick me up.
even if i decided to move in w a gf they would still be the same way. they flipped at me when i rented a room in a house when i was 18. then again when i was 20, then again when i was 23. they still will be the same way no matter what because they firmly believe i can never make it on my own. so they continue to put me down.
and i will just have to break the news to them after the fact that i have moved. because thats just how they are. and when i do tell them after i have moved, my dad will say again the same thing as he always says to me "you have no respect or consideration for me or my feelings. To just move with out consulting me is so disrespectful." then i will tell him the same thing i have always told him that he is psycho and he needs to get help for his anger issues and how he needs to let me grow the fuck up and have my own damn life for once.
my mom freaking out will be an easy one to fix because she is more understanding than my dad is. but yet at the same time she is a jerk because she doesn't help me with anything what so ever. she just bitches and screams at me.
i can't even let her babysit not once, because she will put 3 layers of shirts on my daughter when it is 90 degrees outside. my daughter has had a temperature before because of this. (heat damage to her body) i had to take her to er.
she was over heated and light headed. i screamed at her. she still continues to be the same way. so all in all. i have to move with out them both not knowing i am moving.
i told my older brother about it. and he was like cool about it. he was just like how you gonna move tho? and i was like"Ah i dno i will figure something out" he was just like the same as he has always been growing up telling me you need to get the f out of there away from mom and dad.