You've got a great relationship going for you. Its OK if you are not comfortable broaching the topic. You can say lots to reassure her that as her bff you are there for her, will talk about anything and accept and support her.
You can also take or create opportunities to let her know that you are gay/lesbian positive. I'm not suggesting going overboard, just create a trusting space where she can feel safe in her relationship with you.
If she is lesbian, and you don't really know, you could imagine how terrified she might be to be rejected or judged by someone as important to her as you. Anyway, letting her know where you are at gives her the opportunity to come out in her own time & way, if she is in fact lesbian.
Either way, straight or gay, she has a great friend in you.
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You've got a great relationship going for you. Its OK if you are not comfortable broaching the topic. You can say lots to reassure her that as her bff you are there for her, will talk about anything and accept and support her.
You can also take or create opportunities to let her know that you are gay/lesbian positive. I'm not suggesting going overboard, just create a trusting space where she can feel safe in her relationship with you.
If she is lesbian, and you don't really know, you could imagine how terrified she might be to be rejected or judged by someone as important to her as you. Anyway, letting her know where you are at gives her the opportunity to come out in her own time & way, if she is in fact lesbian.
Either way, straight or gay, she has a great friend in you.
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That was very insightful advice. Thank you so very much. :)