I'm assuming you're a female?
Find a guy you trust, implicitly, and experiment. Start with rather tame, and mild "sextivities" and see if it's what really turns you on, or if it's the thrill of "thinking naughty" which excites you.
That's solid advice, but I am actually a guy. That probably adds to my insecurity since, culturally speaking, women in a submissive role are more easily accepted while men are expected to be tough and take charge. Hope that didn't make this awkward.
I'm a dom woman, so I get that. If you're straight, know that we exist - and if you're not, more power to you. If you want to, there are healthy ways to explore your kinks - nothing to be ashamed of!
Thank you for your encouragement, it makes me feel more at ease about all of this. I was fairly certain that there are people out there who could satisfy these desires, but I'm hesitant to look. I'd have to open up and reveal information about myself that would leave me in a vulnerable position. To be honest, I wouldn't have the courage to discuss it here if not for the anonymity. I will make more of an effort to study the lifestyle and try to feel less self-conscious about it. Again, thank you
If we know the age/gender of the O/P, it gives more information, for which to base our advice on. I believe the more info we have, the better our answers will be.
I'm finding out, on here, that because there are many gay/lesbian people, in the 'audience' that I often have to ask what age/gender they are.
I don't want to have to "assume" things, when giving advice.
For example, this O/P is a guy. That's not obvious, when reading the post. And a lot of times, it doesn't matter...but, sometimes it makes me think in a different way, when giving advice. I prefer to be informed.
I am sorry, this was my first post and I was not aware of the etiquette. I will be sure to include such pertinent information in the future. For the record, I am 24 years old, but I'm 5'4" so I don't really look my age.
I think I'm some kind of weird masochist
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I'm assuming you're a female?
Find a guy you trust, implicitly, and experiment. Start with rather tame, and mild "sextivities" and see if it's what really turns you on, or if it's the thrill of "thinking naughty" which excites you.
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That's solid advice, but I am actually a guy. That probably adds to my insecurity since, culturally speaking, women in a submissive role are more easily accepted while men are expected to be tough and take charge. Hope that didn't make this awkward.
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I'm a dom woman, so I get that. If you're straight, know that we exist - and if you're not, more power to you. If you want to, there are healthy ways to explore your kinks - nothing to be ashamed of!
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Thank you for your encouragement, it makes me feel more at ease about all of this. I was fairly certain that there are people out there who could satisfy these desires, but I'm hesitant to look. I'd have to open up and reveal information about myself that would leave me in a vulnerable position. To be honest, I wouldn't have the courage to discuss it here if not for the anonymity. I will make more of an effort to study the lifestyle and try to feel less self-conscious about it. Again, thank you
Would be nice if people stated their age & gender, when asking for advice. Makes giving suggestions a little more realistic, and specific.
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Unpopular opinion but I think it's interesting when the OP doesn't do this. It can be quite revealing.
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If we know the age/gender of the O/P, it gives more information, for which to base our advice on. I believe the more info we have, the better our answers will be.
I'm finding out, on here, that because there are many gay/lesbian people, in the 'audience' that I often have to ask what age/gender they are.
I don't want to have to "assume" things, when giving advice.
For example, this O/P is a guy. That's not obvious, when reading the post. And a lot of times, it doesn't matter...but, sometimes it makes me think in a different way, when giving advice. I prefer to be informed.
I am sorry, this was my first post and I was not aware of the etiquette. I will be sure to include such pertinent information in the future. For the record, I am 24 years old, but I'm 5'4" so I don't really look my age.