You have to know this.
You. Don't. Have. To. Be. With. Someone.
Because someone has to tell you that your friends that have girlfriends/wives are not any less miserable than you are.
You will mess things up and find yourself in a much worse condition because you were so much quick to get into some relationship that now you don't know what to do about it.
What is worse than not being married ? Yes, it's getting a divorce.
Really, another person is not supposed to make you feel less lonely. That is not a reason to be with anyone. Have you thought of cutting short of relationships that are not good for you instead ?
You sister and your dad. Stop meeting them often. They don't seem like a supportive family.
Confront them.
I think your problem does not lie in the fact that you are alone at 25. It could be your unsupportive family and friends. You keep distance.
I have thought about it like that yes but my family means well....most of the time I don't just want to cut them off I could do that with friends and my friends as far as I know haven't been assholes like my family members have, I know that relationships are not the sole reason for living like I said to a few other posters I'm not just looking for sex and I understand that a majority of relationships aren't perfect like I said I was in one and it ended horribly, I am just sick of coming home to a empty house all the time I will be honest with you I have started talking to myself and it's not healthy I'm even starting to see things that aren't there. I honestly can't take being alone some people are able to handle it better then others but I don't think I am able to.
I think I'm going to die alone
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You have to know this.
You. Don't. Have. To. Be. With. Someone.
Because someone has to tell you that your friends that have girlfriends/wives are not any less miserable than you are.
You will mess things up and find yourself in a much worse condition because you were so much quick to get into some relationship that now you don't know what to do about it.
What is worse than not being married ? Yes, it's getting a divorce.
Really, another person is not supposed to make you feel less lonely. That is not a reason to be with anyone. Have you thought of cutting short of relationships that are not good for you instead ?
You sister and your dad. Stop meeting them often. They don't seem like a supportive family.
Confront them.
I think your problem does not lie in the fact that you are alone at 25. It could be your unsupportive family and friends. You keep distance.
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I have thought about it like that yes but my family means well....most of the time I don't just want to cut them off I could do that with friends and my friends as far as I know haven't been assholes like my family members have, I know that relationships are not the sole reason for living like I said to a few other posters I'm not just looking for sex and I understand that a majority of relationships aren't perfect like I said I was in one and it ended horribly, I am just sick of coming home to a empty house all the time I will be honest with you I have started talking to myself and it's not healthy I'm even starting to see things that aren't there. I honestly can't take being alone some people are able to handle it better then others but I don't think I am able to.