You're still young. I know several people who didn't meet their spouses until their 40's or later, and this is becoming increasingly more common. It is also better to wait for the right person than to rush into a relationship or marriage that is not going to work. You will likely eventually find someone, it just might not be right away.
I understand your feeling, I really do, as I have felt that way as well. It really is worth it to wait for the right person. You can still pursue dating of course, but don't try to rush into anything and just let it happen naturally. If you want, you can try other avenues like online dating. However, it's not a big deal if you don't meet the love of your life by a certain age, and it will happen when it's meant to. Take it from someone who once made the mistake of rushing into the first relationship I could that it's completely not worth it and will make you much more miserable than being alone will. I'm not saying that's what you're going to do, but it's easy for people who feel very alone and desperately want a relationship to do this. I was once told that things sometimes tend to happen when you're not looking for them, and this might be the case with you.
Do your best to learn how to find happiness within yourself, as you will never be able to find happiness with another person if you're unable to make yourself happy. It's very hard sometimes, but it will make your life much better and help ensure that your future relationship(s) will be much healthier and have a much better chance of lasting. It's completely natural to want a partner, but they should not be the sole provider of your happiness. In other words, learn to be able to be happy alone first before you seek out a partner. This could be part of why you struggle with dating. It was for me.
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You're still young. I know several people who didn't meet their spouses until their 40's or later, and this is becoming increasingly more common. It is also better to wait for the right person than to rush into a relationship or marriage that is not going to work. You will likely eventually find someone, it just might not be right away.
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I honestly think that I will go insane by that point.
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Go to A.A meetings. I know a lot of people who go there to be around people cause they are lonely. They aren't alcoholics. They just go.
Honestly that is the only hope for you. Pray to God, seek your spiritual center or whatever. I mean, at this point I wouldn't even recommend a pet.
You need to learn how to be around people and A.A is a good place to do that. And...if you're a drunkard like me, then all the better.
I understand your feeling, I really do, as I have felt that way as well. It really is worth it to wait for the right person. You can still pursue dating of course, but don't try to rush into anything and just let it happen naturally. If you want, you can try other avenues like online dating. However, it's not a big deal if you don't meet the love of your life by a certain age, and it will happen when it's meant to. Take it from someone who once made the mistake of rushing into the first relationship I could that it's completely not worth it and will make you much more miserable than being alone will. I'm not saying that's what you're going to do, but it's easy for people who feel very alone and desperately want a relationship to do this. I was once told that things sometimes tend to happen when you're not looking for them, and this might be the case with you.
Do your best to learn how to find happiness within yourself, as you will never be able to find happiness with another person if you're unable to make yourself happy. It's very hard sometimes, but it will make your life much better and help ensure that your future relationship(s) will be much healthier and have a much better chance of lasting. It's completely natural to want a partner, but they should not be the sole provider of your happiness. In other words, learn to be able to be happy alone first before you seek out a partner. This could be part of why you struggle with dating. It was for me.
Good luck, I really wish you the best!