I am 26.
I have a boyfriend.
We want to marry eachother.
I still feel lonely sometimes.
The thing is, you may have a happy life with a wife and kids and grandkids and sunsets and sunny sundays and what not. You are still going to die alone. That is not the problem.
You do something meaningful with your life if anything matters. 25 anyways is a crazy year. It shall pass. And for chrissake stop comparing your married friends with yourself. No one has to get married just because they are 25. 25 is the new 20 allright. Hell, 30 is the new 20. Anyways, take this as an opportunity to focus on making your career better. What do you think ?
That's all I do work eat sleep workout work eat sleep and it all feels empty I live alone and it feels like a prison most of the time. I see how others are happy and they keep telling me that I should find someone and that things would be brighter. My own fucking sister says constantly that if I had a girlfriend then I would be less weird, my father and brothers say that I might be gay they say they are joking but I doubt it and it's pissing me off. I get what your trying to tell me and I get it I'm not looking for the perfect relationship I just want a relationship so I don't feel out of place and constantly depressed it may not fix it but at least I could have someone there for me.
You have to know this.
You. Don't. Have. To. Be. With. Someone.
Because someone has to tell you that your friends that have girlfriends/wives are not any less miserable than you are.
You will mess things up and find yourself in a much worse condition because you were so much quick to get into some relationship that now you don't know what to do about it.
What is worse than not being married ? Yes, it's getting a divorce.
Really, another person is not supposed to make you feel less lonely. That is not a reason to be with anyone. Have you thought of cutting short of relationships that are not good for you instead ?
You sister and your dad. Stop meeting them often. They don't seem like a supportive family.
Confront them.
I think your problem does not lie in the fact that you are alone at 25. It could be your unsupportive family and friends. You keep distance.
I have thought about it like that yes but my family means well....most of the time I don't just want to cut them off I could do that with friends and my friends as far as I know haven't been assholes like my family members have, I know that relationships are not the sole reason for living like I said to a few other posters I'm not just looking for sex and I understand that a majority of relationships aren't perfect like I said I was in one and it ended horribly, I am just sick of coming home to a empty house all the time I will be honest with you I have started talking to myself and it's not healthy I'm even starting to see things that aren't there. I honestly can't take being alone some people are able to handle it better then others but I don't think I am able to.
I think I'm going to die alone
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I am 26.
I have a boyfriend.
We want to marry eachother.
I still feel lonely sometimes.
The thing is, you may have a happy life with a wife and kids and grandkids and sunsets and sunny sundays and what not. You are still going to die alone. That is not the problem.
You do something meaningful with your life if anything matters. 25 anyways is a crazy year. It shall pass. And for chrissake stop comparing your married friends with yourself. No one has to get married just because they are 25. 25 is the new 20 allright. Hell, 30 is the new 20. Anyways, take this as an opportunity to focus on making your career better. What do you think ?
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That's all I do work eat sleep workout work eat sleep and it all feels empty I live alone and it feels like a prison most of the time. I see how others are happy and they keep telling me that I should find someone and that things would be brighter. My own fucking sister says constantly that if I had a girlfriend then I would be less weird, my father and brothers say that I might be gay they say they are joking but I doubt it and it's pissing me off. I get what your trying to tell me and I get it I'm not looking for the perfect relationship I just want a relationship so I don't feel out of place and constantly depressed it may not fix it but at least I could have someone there for me.
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You have to know this.
You. Don't. Have. To. Be. With. Someone.
Because someone has to tell you that your friends that have girlfriends/wives are not any less miserable than you are.
You will mess things up and find yourself in a much worse condition because you were so much quick to get into some relationship that now you don't know what to do about it.
What is worse than not being married ? Yes, it's getting a divorce.
Really, another person is not supposed to make you feel less lonely. That is not a reason to be with anyone. Have you thought of cutting short of relationships that are not good for you instead ?
You sister and your dad. Stop meeting them often. They don't seem like a supportive family.
Confront them.
I think your problem does not lie in the fact that you are alone at 25. It could be your unsupportive family and friends. You keep distance.
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I have thought about it like that yes but my family means well....most of the time I don't just want to cut them off I could do that with friends and my friends as far as I know haven't been assholes like my family members have, I know that relationships are not the sole reason for living like I said to a few other posters I'm not just looking for sex and I understand that a majority of relationships aren't perfect like I said I was in one and it ended horribly, I am just sick of coming home to a empty house all the time I will be honest with you I have started talking to myself and it's not healthy I'm even starting to see things that aren't there. I honestly can't take being alone some people are able to handle it better then others but I don't think I am able to.