I think i look more appealing when i crossdress

I'm a girl, and I honestly think I look better when I wear a tie, collar shirt, pants, and belt. I think normal people would think I'm kinda weird, but I'm honestly convinced that I look better if I dressed like a guy. I don't know whether this is something related to my sexuality? I'm queer, and leaning towards homosexual. I'm pretty sure what you wear is not related to your sexuality, right?
When I face peer pressure, I feel like I should ditch maleclothes and put on more gender appropriate clothing, but for some reason, my mind refuses to be swayed. Is something wrong with me?

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  • SpookyPancake

    Wear what you like. Clothes don't mean anything in regards to sexuality.

    If you feel better in man's clothing, you might think about your gender identity. Who knows, maybe you're somewhere under the transgender umbrella.

    If you don't feel bad about living as girl, you just like the look, you are probably simply a crossdresser or gender noncomforming, which is a fancy term for "Yeah, these clothes are meant for the other gender, but fuck it, I'm wearing them anyway". It's perfectly normal. What's "for men only, super manly, girls go away", what's "for women only, girly as fuck, guys go away" and what's "yeah, this is unisex, cool for everyone" changes depending on place and time.

    Imagine a guy stepping from a time portal in the modern day U.S.A. dressed in a flowing dress, with a shitload of jewelry, high heels and eyeliner on fleek. People would use different terms, from "drag queen" to "fag". And the dude would be like "Wtf is wrong with these people, do they have no respect for the pharaoh anymore?"

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  • barrysbigbeanbag

    Yep your gay!

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    • Alexandertheasshat

      *you're

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    • ant19645

      gay is for guys the term is lesbian

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      • barrysbigbeanbag

        There still gay idiot!

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        • Alexandertheasshat

          *They're. Nice job insulting people when you don't know proper grammar.

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  • Ratmanwakes

    How do you "lean" towards homosexuality? The lesbians I know feel compelled to take a flying leap! They don't "lean." But perhaps you are young and discovering that you are bisexual.

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    • jukkara

      ahh, bisexual. Yes, that makes sense. And im still trying to figure out my sexuality, im 14

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  • CDmale4fem

    These days what is "normal" ? I'm a guy and I love to cross dress also. I love wearing bras and all sorts of lingerie. I'm not saying I think I look better in lingerie or a dress or skirt, but to me it just feels good. Since age 13. Can I ask when you started wearing male clothing ? I'm just curious.

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  • geek_god_101

    I am a male and think I look better dressed in female clothing.

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  • amyarmy

    I feel ya, girl! I'm the exact same way! I feel like I'm more appealing to both genders when I wear a dress shirt, vest, and pants. Don't give in to the peer pressure! I personally consider gender identity separate from sexuality; I agree with you on that. If you find peer pressure particularly hard to deal with, wear androgynous clothes. However, the best thing is to be yourself!

    Personal experience with peer pressure:
    I am female. My female best friend, who identifies as bisexual, found a girlfriend. My other female best friend also identifies as bisexual. I subsequently tried to change my sexuality from straight to bisexual to 'fit in' with my friends. It didn't work, and I became depressed. The lesson here is: don't give in to peer pressure. It never does any good. Be yourself, no matter how embarrassing it is.

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  • KatelynKitty

    You are most likely transgender

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    • amyarmy

      Or she's a cross-dresser

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  • Darkknight

    It's generally easier for a girl to dress as a guy rather that the other way around and some guys do find the Tom boy look kind of cute.

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  • rayb12

    Couldn't really follow, what are u asking?

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    • jukkara

      im a girl but i like dressing up like a guy cuz i think i look better like that.

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      • rayb12

        Alright, sounds good then..

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  • bubsy

    Female sexuality is fluid, and will never be as black or white as it is for guys. Wear clothes that fit you and just be aware of who exactly you're trying to attract. If it's predominately women, you want to be more masculine.

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  • Babuli

    Being a girl you should feel proud.

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  • Murun

    Wear what you like.

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