I had a boyfriend like that. It went to a point where everything I said, I could predict what he was going to say and the relationship just became depressing and I hated it. To make matters worse I wasn't all that confident and he just made me feel worse about myself.
I cheated on him because I found comfort in another guy who knew what to say. If he was wiser with he's words then the other guy's words wouldn't matter, it was almost like thats all I wanted to hear.
The point of that story is becareful what you say and make sure your girlfriend isn't offended and don't do it often, she might look for what you are not giving her elsewhere.
Remember girls are sensitive, so comments on appearence and intelligence may lower her confidence.
thanks for the input, and i've talked to her and i have made a great effort to not make her feel bad anymore. We're both a lot happier than we were during the summer, i think the main problem was too much of eachother and we were just getting agitated. But still, i'm glad we're working through it (i think it's genetic, both my parents are very mean in waht they say) I can see us spending another year and a half at least together ^^. ty people!
Wow you are still a horrible person...
You cheater, you should of just dumped your loser boyfriend... But instead I bet you felt good being a dirty cheating whore huh lmaol ho's be hella HILARIOUS =/
i think i am too critical and mean to my girlfriend
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I had a boyfriend like that. It went to a point where everything I said, I could predict what he was going to say and the relationship just became depressing and I hated it. To make matters worse I wasn't all that confident and he just made me feel worse about myself.
I cheated on him because I found comfort in another guy who knew what to say. If he was wiser with he's words then the other guy's words wouldn't matter, it was almost like thats all I wanted to hear.
The point of that story is becareful what you say and make sure your girlfriend isn't offended and don't do it often, she might look for what you are not giving her elsewhere.
Remember girls are sensitive, so comments on appearence and intelligence may lower her confidence.
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thanks for the input, and i've talked to her and i have made a great effort to not make her feel bad anymore. We're both a lot happier than we were during the summer, i think the main problem was too much of eachother and we were just getting agitated. But still, i'm glad we're working through it (i think it's genetic, both my parents are very mean in waht they say) I can see us spending another year and a half at least together ^^. ty people!
Wow you are still a horrible person...
You cheater, you should of just dumped your loser boyfriend... But instead I bet you felt good being a dirty cheating whore huh lmaol ho's be hella HILARIOUS =/
Great advise and I've lost many great women who loved me because of this.
It's a commitment and a working progress everyday, and I'm dealing with the guilt of many years of this.