I suddenly feel unsure about the guy i was yearning for...

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I had felt so depressed and hurt when he was with his ex girlfriend.. I wanted him so bad... I wished every day that he'd want to go out with me...
He finally did break up with his girlfriend after she cheated on him, then he asked me out...

Well, when we first started going out, I felt so happy and giddy, and would be smiling like crazy when ever I talked to him.

But now I feel this.. Weird, unsure feeling... I feel like I don't want to talk to him and I feel all ashamed... Well, I think it was ever since he started constantly saying 'I love you'.

Is it normal to feel a little weird after finally getting the guy you wanted, or after they constantly say 'I love you' so quickly?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You sound just like my girlfriend. To break this down easier, I wouldn't worry about it.

    Myself, I was in the same situation that you described and sure I still have feelings toward my ex, if only a little. The thing you have to realise is that you ARE NOT competing with her or anyone else.

    He will not love you the same as her, but since he is with you and not her, is that a bad thing? He will love different things AND miss some of the good from his ex, it is just the way things are. Just make damn sure your good is good enough.

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  • mumbum
    13 years ago

    Hmmm... Something is definitely bothering you about him... Trust your instinct with this one. Don't talk yourself out of what you are feeling. This first doubt is REALLY significant so pay attention. Time will make it clearer to you what it is that is bothering you, so until then hang right back and slow it right down. Maybe consider even stopping the dating until you get your head around it... Above all trust yourself.

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  • XxEmO_MiKexX
    14 years ago

    Well yeah becuz you dont kno if he is jus saying it or if he really means it. but maybe getting the guy you wanted wasnt really what you wanted maybe you wanted to feel loved and be loved in a relationship with someone. but yeah thats something you have to really think about, but yeah your normal as shit!

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