It's just that actual sex lacks fantasy, while masturbation is all about fantasy, you can imagine anything to be what ever you want it to be. Sex feels more restricted to the things you can imagine, and when I'm imagining at that moment it's of her porn, so I wind up always watching the porn instead to get a more concetrated form of it than imagining about it during sex. And like I said, we've been together for over 19 years, and we're still young. I think there are a lot of times that married couples eventually stop having sex, partly due to all the mystery being long gone. But I just wish I wasn't already going through that stage at age 35. Oh and yes, I very much still have desire for her, but then thats why I love her videos so much.
Maybe you need to both change your surroundings and routine. A vacation together might help. Even something really different like a camping trip in the woods.
I have found that the depth of intimacy and desire for each other is very much related to how much you love each other, especially in a long term relationship to keep that spark alive.
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It's just that actual sex lacks fantasy, while masturbation is all about fantasy, you can imagine anything to be what ever you want it to be. Sex feels more restricted to the things you can imagine, and when I'm imagining at that moment it's of her porn, so I wind up always watching the porn instead to get a more concetrated form of it than imagining about it during sex. And like I said, we've been together for over 19 years, and we're still young. I think there are a lot of times that married couples eventually stop having sex, partly due to all the mystery being long gone. But I just wish I wasn't already going through that stage at age 35. Oh and yes, I very much still have desire for her, but then thats why I love her videos so much.
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Maybe you need to both change your surroundings and routine. A vacation together might help. Even something really different like a camping trip in the woods.
I have found that the depth of intimacy and desire for each other is very much related to how much you love each other, especially in a long term relationship to keep that spark alive.