It could be an underlying fear - some people fear it because it might be painful because it's a totally new experience. Some people don't like to orgasm due to a religious upbringing that condemns a partnerless orgasm or downright condemns masturbation altogether.
Just try to relax, it's okay to orgasm - it's also normal not to want to, but there is nothing to fear.
Also, I'll just make clear about a common misconception - orgasm is a sexual peak. If it feels good, and you get these sort of muscle contractions or you moan a bit, that IS an orgasm. If there's also fluid involved, then it's actually ejaculation (and this applies to both males and females). Orgasm may or may not involve ejaculation.
I Stop Before I Think Im Going To Orgasm..
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It could be an underlying fear - some people fear it because it might be painful because it's a totally new experience. Some people don't like to orgasm due to a religious upbringing that condemns a partnerless orgasm or downright condemns masturbation altogether.
Just try to relax, it's okay to orgasm - it's also normal not to want to, but there is nothing to fear.
Also, I'll just make clear about a common misconception - orgasm is a sexual peak. If it feels good, and you get these sort of muscle contractions or you moan a bit, that IS an orgasm. If there's also fluid involved, then it's actually ejaculation (and this applies to both males and females). Orgasm may or may not involve ejaculation.