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I dont know why, but when I masterbate, i stop right as soon as i THINK(Im not sure if im about to or not =/) im about to orgasm. Its like..i want it, but i dont, and i've had enough pleasure? I really dont know..
Yeah, i'm a virgin. But why do i do this? I just dont understand..I want to orgasm!
You might be playing with your clit either to much or to ruff. Try a new masturbation technic. Or if u have a penis just go till you kkerboom all over!! If your worried about being to loud bite something. :)
You'll definately know when you've had one lil, its like an explosion!?!! A very very good one!
Its annoying when ppl say they dont kbow if they had an orgasm. YOU DEFINATELY KNOW its amazing theres nothing like it. Im wondering if somebody doesnt have an orgasm when do they stop?
I can tell when im about to orgasm so i stop to make masterbating last longer, tjen igo at it some more and have an orgasm
It could be an underlying fear - some people fear it because it might be painful because it's a totally new experience. Some people don't like to orgasm due to a religious upbringing that condemns a partnerless orgasm or downright condemns masturbation altogether.
Just try to relax, it's okay to orgasm - it's also normal not to want to, but there is nothing to fear.
Also, I'll just make clear about a common misconception - orgasm is a sexual peak. If it feels good, and you get these sort of muscle contractions or you moan a bit, that IS an orgasm. If there's also fluid involved, then it's actually ejaculation (and this applies to both males and females). Orgasm may or may not involve ejaculation.
Not quite sure what this would be about. Speaking for guys, you couldn't distract them enough to delay a point of no return orgasm. Are you afraid of something? Do you remember if anyone made you feel guilty about masturbation ad a child? Do some soul searching
Get as much porn as you can, a vibrator and some lube - Don't stop until the job is done.
A lot of girls have trouble achieving an orgasm with their fingers alone. You could buy yourself a vibrator with an adjustable vibrating function so you can go slower or faster whenever you want. This way your orgasm will come much quicker and you won't get tired during "playtime".
My girlfriend had the same problem and this is how she fixed it. Oh, and I did my share too, of course :D
then just go thru with it, an orgasm is f*cking awesome. i cant think of anything better than an orgasm