I still think about an old lover.

Hello everyone.
My current lover and I have been together for 13 years. We have a wonderful relationship and I hope we grow old together. The problem is I still think about this jerk of a boyfriend I had years ago. He was a lier, a cheater, and an all around ass. Inspite of all of that I loved him dearly, still do to a point though I haven't seen him in years. The problem is he was a fire cracker in bed. He was such a hot lover that I still dream about him from time to time. As well I still think about him some times when my current lover and I make love. I can't help myself! So My question is, drum roll please! Is this normal?

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70% Normal
Based on 10 votes (7 yes)
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  • buriedalive

    Yea, it's normal :). I don't think you can ever really forget a person you loved, even if you're with someone else who you love just as much as you did the first guy.

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  • peterr

    Nothing wrong with these feelings. Glad you enjoyed it and have a basis for comparison.

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  • OliverSquare

    Well, He probably forgot about you. Especially if he was a lying cheat. So the real question is why even engage the thought forget that asshat completely.

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