I still don't like men?

bro im actually so scared i have friends that are like 'this guy is really cute' and get flustered by topless guys but i literally feel no attraction?? to any of them?

if it's a mental block like guilt or smth i may try to get help so i can start liking men
im a girl im literally waiting to be attracted to men but im almost 18 and still nothing wtf
is it an age thing? i only ever felt that from looking at women? like girls wearing shorts or out of breath? like velma in that scooby doo movie or shakira?

even worse i call so many people gay as a joke im such a clown i hate myself

Is It Normal?
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  • Don't listen to these "progressive" weirdos - You're a normal female teenager. a 17 year old shouldn't be 'hot and bothered' by shirtless men. Women are typically more emotionally attracted than physically, due to lower sex drive than men. If you want a man then find one you can love and trust, and see where it goes from there. You have plenty of time yet. Women's sexual peak is somewhere around age 30.

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  • Honestly, I've never really felt any strong attraction to anyone, and definitely not just by looking at them. I have become attracted to someone after getting to know them, but they were just ordinary guys I didn't really notice before that. I would say it's normal.

    I also think it's normal to find the body of someone of the same sex attractive (not as in you are sexually attracted to them, but think they look good) without necessarily being gay or bisexual. Most of the time if I see a woman with a good body, I think "I want my body to look like that".

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  • You're probably a lesbian.

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    • She doesn’t sound very committed to either side.

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    • are you saying that you, as a straight woman, are affected by looking at men? Just by looking?

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  • Normal. You're still a kid

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  • I said sexual peak not fertility peak. Google it

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  • Your thinking is very binary. Just men and women? What about attack helicopters? You could be sexually attracted to those.

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  • You may be a potato

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  • Everybodys calling you gay but I never met a lesbian that actually like hated men.

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  • I suspect that you are more attracted to how people behave, think, and act than you are to their bodies.

    That's fine as I am largely that way myself. Yes, I do appreciate a nice looking body... but, that in itself is not sexually attractive for me. How they think and act is what I key in on.

    Let me know if that makes sense to you...

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    • That makes sense to me, I think it's called sapiophile/sapiosexual

      It really can be anybody for me I think, as long as I can like accurately understand/assess their behavior and it appeals to me

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  • Maybe you want some hot scissor action

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  • You're a lesbian. It's not a big deal.

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  • You never heard of the LGBTQ community? Being a lesbian or bisexual isn't anything to be ashamed about. So what if you don't truly feel anything for men?! It proves you are capable of following your own sexuality rather than sticking with the majority to "blend in". You be you girl, follow what your heart wants!

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  • Try joining some LGBT+ Facebook groups and sub Reddits, if nothing else it will help you feel less alone.

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  • You’re a lesbian clown that creeps on women in shorts?

    *shudders

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  • I think you might be a lesbian. There are some other options tho. Don't feel bad about it, just discover yourself and embrace who tou are. Personally attractive guys get me excited so I just can't relate cause I've never questioned my sexuality.

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  • It's ok chances are they don't like you either....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  • Have you been with another female?

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  • Are you a lesbian?

    Since you might be attracted to females?

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  • I have only ever been attracted to a single female, and have never been attracted to anyone else. You probably just haven't seen someone you consider attractive.

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  • You’re probably gay
    (not joking)

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  • You're a lesbian and there's nothing wrong with that. Also being a lesbian doesn't mean you can't behave like a civil human being around guys.

    Go right ahead and have a relationship with a woman. Cupid isn't going to float down on his fairy wings from heaven and slap you in the face for munching on a bit of carpet.

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  • I totally get you - I don't like men either. In fact - our gender is so gross overall. I'm one of the very few exceptions..
    I don't need your competition for girls though, I hope you straighten yourself up after all ;D

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