I spend a lot of time tanning to change my racial/ethnic looks

Thanks, I remember I used to know this one girl I met at church of all places, and she just always tired me out. Like, some women are straight up draining. I remember this chick telling me that I should get a tan, and I told her that I had sun damage in my left eye so my doctor had told me to stay out of the sun. Then she says I should go get a spray tan, and I'm just annoyed, "thinking I'm not paying good money to get myself dyed orange", nevermind the fact that I have zero desire to get a tan either way.

One of the traits of codependency is offering up unsolicited advice, and opinions. Now I'm so aware of that red flag, but oftentimes the women who do that are so overly nice, and friendly that it can be disarming, and then next thing I know I feel like crap, and can't quite put my finger on why I feel so awful. Then women wonder why some other women prefer not to be around them. Of course there are codependent guys as well, but there's something about codependent women, and that awful toxicity. Ugh.

Chocolate chip zucchini does sound quite intriguing. 😊👍🏻