I slept with my history teacher..

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Well, ok *bad grammar warning* (im from Sweeden)
Ok the thing is i go to university in Denmark and it happend something that i regret! I slept with my history teacher.. He is 25 and im 19...

And i wonder if its normal that a teacher dose that? I know it was me too.. im not blameing the guy.. But he calls me all the time.. And i dont want it to happend again..

Is It Normal?
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  • Aj;)
    8 years ago | pl

    the teacher is still a human being .. we dont hv to blame him .. and why do u regret it ????

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Because i felt it was wrong you know.. And i have not had many sex partners so i dont want people to think in easy.. :/

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  • eastbeast
    8 years ago | pl

    So now you've got history together.

    Seriously, there is nothing wrong in what you both have done as long as it doesn't increase your marks.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago | pl

    I understand what you mean. Its not considered appropriate or politically correct but for sure no harm comes out of it and you know it. I've seen several times during university and people might comment but nothing ever happened.
    The problem stands if the pupil gets high grades. Than someone will complain for sure.
    I saw that kind of relations so many times that I can't count. Even gay relations and nobody cared.
    In England they might care or North of Ireland. Some catholic universities too but in general I don't think so.
    A friend of mine married a teacher from Sorbonne. Her own teacher, for example.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Yeah, but i do get good grades, dont know if its because of him.. I really like history..

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      • Mr-Myrtos
        8 years ago | pl

        You shouldn't get good grades under a situation like that even if you were the best in class. Those things have a price and in your case that is the price to pay. You must only get grades do pass and that's it. Otherwise you might get in trouble with your colleagues. Might I said...

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          That is so sad, but i guess its true..

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    He's taking a bit of a risk with his job and you may find yourself in an awkward situation if he has influence at the university and/or is your instructor again in the future. If you don't want the relationship, I suggest letting him down easy, so you don't piss him off and turn him against you. Just distance yourself, avoid going out with him again, and hope he moves on.

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    • Mr-Myrtos
      8 years ago | pl

      In Denmark he does not take any risk in is job. I assure you this. In very few European countries is a risk as long as they are adults.

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      • JD777
        8 years ago | pl

        Maybe not as much risk as in the US, where you could be fired. But I've taught in several European countries and having sex with students still brings the risk of colleagues and administrators disapproving.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          It is a risk for sure.. But i have feelings for him.. And i know that sound stupid and all that but i really do. But i guess ill just avoid him, its to big of a risk..

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago | pl

    He's a man, you're a woman, your ages aren't that far apart. Pretty normal to me. Enjoy!

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  • reallyalthea
    8 years ago | pl

    I need more details ..

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    8 years ago | pl

    Both adults. Do you love him or you are just horny about the guy?
    Whatever you do must be away from school and nobody must know. Not even your best friend. Your best friend has for sure a good friend to.
    I know pretty well Scandinavian mentality. My son's mother was Danish. Your concerns here do not fit in Scandinavia mentality.
    Are you a lonely girl?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      To be honest i do love him, or i like him really much.. He is so nice to me... And no im not lonely i just dont feel like what i did was wrong..

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      • Mr-Myrtos
        8 years ago | pl

        I don't think is wrong, I just think you might get hurt out of that but you are old enough to know.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          I know, and im afraid.. But life is a scarey place.. But thats just how it is..

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          • johnho
            8 years ago | pl

            True it is scary especially if you are doing things you are doing are questionable and you are getting bad advice. Better judgement would say(in my opinion) keep working on your studies enjoy what you had and move forward.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago | pl

    så bara tala om för honom att du mår dåligt och vill inte?

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  • johnho
    8 years ago | pl

    Did it 1.improve your grade
    2.no difference
    3.I just wanted his ass

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    • johnho
      8 years ago | pl

      Well then that gives food for thought, You aren't still sleeping with him? If he calls all the time, it could get complicated. I would chalk it up to experience. It seems to me that you are having second thoughts anyway. Teachers and students never ends well..

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Well i get A in history, but that was before it happend so idk...

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    A Svenska flika temptress? Oh you bad, bad girl. What healthy male could resist you? Blonde hair, blue eyed beauty, no doubt. Shame on you girl; you should have come to the Caribbean and seduced some old sea captain instead of your professor.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Haha i take this as a compliment

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